"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bilionaire marriages - why get hitched?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The funny thing about marriages is that most athletes and people who have alot of money get married young. Very rarely will you see a billionaire or a pro athlete who was not married at least once.

I wonder why that is? An athlete or a billionaire can get pu$$y when he is 55 yet he decides to get married at 25.
 

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Because he can have the best of both worlds. Most rockers have wive, kids, do you honestly think that stops them fvcking a different groupie every night?

No different with pro athletes.
 

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It's sad that the writer believes that there is a simplicity about marriage if you're not married. Every aspect identified as a concern for the wealthy should be a concern for anyone getting married.

I think it was Chris Rock who pointed out that it really sucks if you make $30 million and have to give have to your wife in a divorce, but you still have $15 million. Compare that to if you make $30 thousand and have to give away half. The guy who still has $15 million will have a tad bit easier time than the guy with $15 thousand would be my guess.
 

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Marriage isn't about Love !!!! its an insurance policy for women if either of you decide to split up, and if you were foolish enough to have kids, there gonna get used like weapons to milk you for even more of your hard earned cash.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wow, I hope I can use the "I didn't have proper legal representation" and "A napkin is not valid for use when writing out a legally binding contract" excuse when someone sues me. What a crock of bull$****. Just goes to show what women can get away with playing the role of VICTIM. Isn't a NAPKIN made form the same tree as a piece of paper?

That said, what's the difference between 30 BILLion and 15 billion? To these guys a divorce has no more effect on their lifestyle than 18 holes of golf on the public course on a Sunday afternoon.

Still....it's the PRINCIPAL goddammit. It's just not right.
 

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STR8UP said:
Wow, I hope I can use the "I didn't have proper legal representation" and "A napkin is not valid for use when writing out a legally binding contract" excuse when someone sues me. What a crock of bull$****. Just goes to show what women can get away with playing the role of VICTIM. Isn't a NAPKIN made form the same tree as a piece of paper?

That said, what's the difference between 30 BILLion and 15 billion? To these guys a divorce has no more effect on their lifestyle than 18 holes of golf on the public course on a Sunday afternoon.

Still....it's the PRINCIPAL goddammit. It's just not right.
You should see what Tom Cruise worked out with Katie before they married. He had a good lawyer. Katie could get monetary benefit from the marriage but it'll only be a set fraction of Tom's worth and there are time stipulations attached. Hey, it's nothing against her, it's just business... ;)
 
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