"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bikini Bars

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Bikini bars are the half-way point between regular bars (usually lame these days in the cell-phone generation as people always have plans/contacts) and strip clubs (also usually lame because 70% of them are prostitutes).

Bikini bars are like stocked fishing ponds.

I met my dream girl (age 29) at one in Silicon Valley. In the process of hanging out to see her I also got 3 other numbers and literally had to stop pursuing more because they all work together. I must have 12 women who hug me when I go there, after maybe 10 visits (and you only spend $50 or so). Women seem to have gone through a reality check about what a good salary is. Nowadays if you just have a decent job they are happy and they especially don't want to hear you brag about assets.

Has anyone else had luck at Bikini bars?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is your fascination with women who get paid to flirt with and expose themselves to a lot of men in a sexual manner? How is such a woman your "dream girl"?
 

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bigneil said:
Bikini bars are the half-way point between regular bars (usually lame these days in the cell-phone generation as people always have plans/contacts) and strip clubs (also usually lame because 70% of them are prostitutes).

Bikini bars are like stocked fishing ponds.

I met my dream girl (age 29) at one in Silicon Valley. In the process of hanging out to see her I also got 3 other numbers and literally had to stop pursuing more because they all work together. I must have 12 women who hug me when I go there, after maybe 10 visits (and you only spend $50 or so). Women seem to have gone through a reality check about what a good salary is. Nowadays if you just have a decent job they are happy and they especially don't want to hear you brag about assets.

Has anyone else had luck at Bikini bars?
Stay away from bikini bars. Hook up with a horny librarian who squirts. Good stuff. :cheer:
 

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Nah, they're way too quiet. I'd get pissed if she "Sshhh'd" me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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