"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bigneil vs BeExcellent

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For those of you who thought the middle aged woman might give you better insight than the middle aged man, here is some historical data over the PAST EIGHT WEEKS (this means you, @ImTheDoubleGreatest! ).

@marmel75 is trending #2. @BeExcellent is trending #7.

According to a recent survey, men score 357% more likes than women his age on SoSuave, much to the chagrin of products of the welfare state who make blind accusations to offset their lack of resources.


 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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At this point BigNeil has to be doing this on purpose. He's just been trolling the forum for the past few months probably. Because there's no way this guy is serious. Someone please assure me he's not serious. There's no way
 
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Hmm, who's Wino? Oh that's the guy who just joined SoSuave and gave BigNeil 100+ likes today.

BN, make it less obvious by having your alter-ego(s) like posts from years ago so it's less traceable ;)

Edit: approx 100+ likes today
 
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guru1000 said:
Hmm, who's Wino? Oh that's the guy that just joined SoSuave and gave BigNeil 30 likes today.

BN, make it less obvious by having your alter-ego(s) like posts from years ago so it's untraceable ;)
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I noticed the same thing hahaha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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guru1000 said:
Hmm, who's Wino? Oh that's the guy who just joined SoSuave and gave BigNeil 100+ likes today.

BN, make it less obvious by having your alter-ego(s) like posts from years ago so it's less traceable ;)

Edit: approx 100+ likes today
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You saw the original post, correct? Where I took the lead? The poster simply undid what another member did. Funny how you were ok with Desdinova getting 99 likes from the same user, which prompted wino.

May the lord strike me down if I have any idea who my savior is, but justice was served.

And do note. "guru1000" I got over 3 times as many likes as you in the past 8 weeks. The numbers don't lie.

We know one thing. You guys are pissed off about bigneil being most liked. I don't blame you. It makes every one of his naysayers look REAL bad. I don't mean because he got laid and you didn't, but that too.
 
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You saw the original post, correct? Where I took the lead? The poster simply undid what another member did. Funny how you were ok with Desdinova getting 99 likes from the same user, which prompted wino.

May the lord strike me down if I have any idea who my savior is, but justice was served.

And do note. "guru1000" I got over 3 times as many likes as you in the past 8 weeks. The numbers don't lie.
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300% more likes than me.

Impressive.

How many more posts than me percentage-wise to achieve a 300%-like increase?
 
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300% more likes than me.

Impressive.

How many more posts than me percentage-wise to achieve a 300%-like increase?
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The key was my getting laid. Try it sometime.

I passed you ages ago - when I entered the top ten. You are old news.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Weak adversaries first reach. Posts/Likes = Lose

After losing there, then project ... "Bisexuals."
 
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Wait, first @guru1000 protests that I got extra likes, while conveniently ignoring Desdinova getting extra likes, and then (sneakily) says my extra likes are fraudulent? While pretending he is heterosexual? Please. I want to see proof.

Someone ran out of Vaseline.
 
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Did I not already prove your three girls with 99% (at best) attractiveness were second tier to my July harem (three girls) at 100% attractiveness.

Take a seat.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Epicurus said:
At this point BigNeil has to be doing this on purpose. He's just been trolling the forum for the past few months probably. Because there's no way this guy is serious. Someone please assure me he's not serious. There's no way
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Suicide by mod. He's done.
 
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