"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For those of you who thought the middle aged woman might give you better insight than the middle aged man, here is some historical data over the PAST EIGHT WEEKS (this means you, @ImTheDoubleGreatest! ).

@marmel75 is trending #2. @BeExcellent is trending #7.

According to a recent survey, men score 357% more likes than women his age on SoSuave, much to the chagrin of products of the welfare state who make blind accusations to offset their lack of resources.


 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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At this point BigNeil has to be doing this on purpose. He's just been trolling the forum for the past few months probably. Because there's no way this guy is serious. Someone please assure me he's not serious. There's no way
 
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Hmm, who's Wino? Oh that's the guy who just joined SoSuave and gave BigNeil 100+ likes today.

BN, make it less obvious by having your alter-ego(s) like posts from years ago so it's less traceable ;)

Edit: approx 100+ likes today
 
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guru1000 said:
Hmm, who's Wino? Oh that's the guy that just joined SoSuave and gave BigNeil 30 likes today.

BN, make it less obvious by having your alter-ego(s) like posts from years ago so it's untraceable ;)
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I noticed the same thing hahaha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guru1000 said:
Hmm, who's Wino? Oh that's the guy who just joined SoSuave and gave BigNeil 100+ likes today.

BN, make it less obvious by having your alter-ego(s) like posts from years ago so it's less traceable ;)

Edit: approx 100+ likes today
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You saw the original post, correct? Where I took the lead? The poster simply undid what another member did. Funny how you were ok with Desdinova getting 99 likes from the same user, which prompted wino.

May the lord strike me down if I have any idea who my savior is, but justice was served.

And do note. "guru1000" I got over 3 times as many likes as you in the past 8 weeks. The numbers don't lie.

We know one thing. You guys are pissed off about bigneil being most liked. I don't blame you. It makes every one of his naysayers look REAL bad. I don't mean because he got laid and you didn't, but that too.
 
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You saw the original post, correct? Where I took the lead? The poster simply undid what another member did. Funny how you were ok with Desdinova getting 99 likes from the same user, which prompted wino.

May the lord strike me down if I have any idea who my savior is, but justice was served.

And do note. "guru1000" I got over 3 times as many likes as you in the past 8 weeks. The numbers don't lie.
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300% more likes than me.

Impressive.

How many more posts than me percentage-wise to achieve a 300%-like increase?
 
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300% more likes than me.

Impressive.

How many more posts than me percentage-wise to achieve a 300%-like increase?
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The key was my getting laid. Try it sometime.

I passed you ages ago - when I entered the top ten. You are old news.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Weak adversaries first reach. Posts/Likes = Lose

After losing there, then project ... "Bisexuals."
 
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Wait, first @guru1000 protests that I got extra likes, while conveniently ignoring Desdinova getting extra likes, and then (sneakily) says my extra likes are fraudulent? While pretending he is heterosexual? Please. I want to see proof.

Someone ran out of Vaseline.
 
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Did I not already prove your three girls with 99% (at best) attractiveness were second tier to my July harem (three girls) at 100% attractiveness.

Take a seat.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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At this point BigNeil has to be doing this on purpose. He's just been trolling the forum for the past few months probably. Because there's no way this guy is serious. Someone please assure me he's not serious. There's no way
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Suicide by mod. He's done.
 
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