"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Biggest Tests She Puts Men Through

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Every single time in a relationship where I've showed significant feeling/emotion it has come back to bite me. By no means did I go overboard, I was simply being human. I think there's a double standard out there and sometimes feel guys aren't allowed to express themselves fully. When they do it is seen as weakness.
Even if she is describing what you are feeling (saying how good it feels when you hold her, etc), it's still not safe to express feelings. It's not even safe to say you feel the same way.

Are we really supposed to believe that our ancestors felt zero emotion, ever? Did women always punish men for being human? Is it the key of feminism, the idea that men should be infinitely strong? A man who shows zero emotion ever is called a Sociopath.

In the past, I think the bond women felt when they had sex was stronger than the loss of attraction they felt (if they ever did then) regarding him showing occasional emotion. I think promiscuity is the cornerstone that underwrites this horrible female philosophy.

I can see how a man shouldn't always be emotional, but when women want to be like "AHA! I saw you care about something!! You're not infinitely strong! No second chances!" it's almost pathological.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Even if she is describing what you are feeling (saying how good it feels when you hold her, etc), it's still not safe to express feelings. It's not even safe to say you feel the same way.

Are we really supposed to believe that our ancestors felt zero emotion, ever? Did women always punish men for being human? Is it the key of feminism, the idea that men should be infinitely strong? A man who shows zero emotion ever is called a Sociopath.

In the past, I think the bond women felt when they had sex was stronger than the loss of attraction they felt (if they ever did then) regarding him showing occasional emotion. I think promiscuity is the cornerstone that underwrites this horrible female philosophy.
Feminism has simultaneously given women strength and ruined the normal functioning of male/female gender dynamics. They only have themselves to blame!
 

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In the past, I think the bond women felt when they had sex was stronger than the loss of attraction they felt (if they ever did then) regarding him showing occasional emotion. I think promiscuity is the cornerstone that underwrites this horrible female philosophy.
I definitely see this, its pretty obvious with women that I've dated......the ones that were more promiscuous had a harder time bonding through secks.
 

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Even if she is describing what you are feeling (saying how good it feels when you hold her, etc), it's still not safe to express feelings. It's not even safe to say you feel the same way.

Are we really supposed to believe that our ancestors felt zero emotion, ever? Did women always punish men for being human? Is it the key of feminism, the idea that men should be infinitely strong? A man who shows zero emotion ever is called a Sociopath.

In the past, I think the bond women felt when they had sex was stronger than the loss of attraction they felt (if they ever did then) regarding him showing occasional emotion. I think promiscuity is the cornerstone that underwrites this horrible female philosophy.

I can see how a man shouldn't always be emotional, but when women want to be like "AHA! I saw you care about something!! You're not infinitely strong! No second chances!" it's almost pathological.
It is part of the mystery of attraction. If you repeat, "I love spending time with you too" or other stuff like that, they know they got you. You can throw them a bone once in a while, but in all reality, you have to keep most of what you feel to yourself, especially early on in the bonding process.
 

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The difference is at some point I attach while these women never attach fully. I say this because as material circumstances change (or any other random reason) they detach if not outright sabatoge things as opposed to me who only detaches for some of the most flagrant abusive behaviour.
This is true. The worst part is this happens with women you thought were head over heels for you. I've had it happen just hours after great sex. Usually it's like a balloon popping. There is no warning and no putting it back together. And since women live with zero sense of honor, they simply walk away regardless of anything they had promised. Men, being experts at this scenario, naturally have a traumatic reaction at some level. Women do everything to make us care, right down to their hair and makeup and outfits, and then they punish us if we actually, eventually care (and the amount of time it takes before we are permitted this seems to be getting longer and longer, now it's around 3-6 months). They would never be a member of a club that would have THEM as a member. This couldn't happen back in the days when we didn't have the welfare state (and/or 20 beta males along with a woman shameless enough to leverage them) backing them up. Feminism and the welfare state are simply enabling their innate corruption (by design, to undermine the family) and they exploit it to the maximum. How is any child safe when women are like this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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