"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S.Y.L

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Whats AFC stand for. I get what it means and who they are, but what does it stand for
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157077
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1533531#post1533531
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:William_pratt.gif
men who try to impress women
men who buy women things
men who are clueless
men who are ALWAYS nice and understanding
men who think women are better then men
men who think they have to do what the women want, who want to please
men who try to get into her pants by being her friend
men who dont know what they want (with a specific girl/in general -this is my personal problem)
men who worry about what the woman is thinking
men who think that men need to turn a woman on to be a sexual being
men who think women need to make sense
men who worry about valentine's day
me
you=average frustrated chump
 

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I knew that, but what does the acronym stand for?
 

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bornyesterday said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157077
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1533531#post1533531
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:William_pratt.gif
men who try to impress women
men who buy women things
men who are clueless
men who are ALWAYS nice and understanding
men who think women are better then men
men who think they have to do what the women want, who want to please
men who try to get into her pants by being her friend
men who dont know what they want (with a specific girl/in general -this is my personal problem)
men who worry about what the woman is thinking
men who think that men need to turn a woman on to be a sexual being
men who think women need to make sense
men who worry about valentine's day
me
you=average frustrated chump
he typed it for you at the bottom
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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