"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S.Y.L

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Whats AFC stand for. I get what it means and who they are, but what does it stand for
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157077
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1533531#post1533531
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:William_pratt.gif
men who try to impress women
men who buy women things
men who are clueless
men who are ALWAYS nice and understanding
men who think women are better then men
men who think they have to do what the women want, who want to please
men who try to get into her pants by being her friend
men who dont know what they want (with a specific girl/in general -this is my personal problem)
men who worry about what the woman is thinking
men who think that men need to turn a woman on to be a sexual being
men who think women need to make sense
men who worry about valentine's day
me
you=average frustrated chump
 

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I knew that, but what does the acronym stand for?
 

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bornyesterday said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157077
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1533531#post1533531
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:William_pratt.gif
men who try to impress women
men who buy women things
men who are clueless
men who are ALWAYS nice and understanding
men who think women are better then men
men who think they have to do what the women want, who want to please
men who try to get into her pants by being her friend
men who dont know what they want (with a specific girl/in general -this is my personal problem)
men who worry about what the woman is thinking
men who think that men need to turn a woman on to be a sexual being
men who think women need to make sense
men who worry about valentine's day
me
you=average frustrated chump
he typed it for you at the bottom
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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