Biggest mistake men make when they are in serious LTR.

[noBSgames]

I don't know about that bro.

I've handed my paycheque to her
I've had her dictate what I can spend my money on
I've spent a lot of money on her

She couldn't have enough sex with me.

Sure beats being home Friday and Saturday night with no one to talk to while telling yourself you are alpha.



I don't know about that bro.

Met a girl 2 weeks ago. Beautiful beautiful 25 year Korean girl. She split the rent with her boyfriend, split dining out, split everything.

SHE made more money than him
SHE worked harder than him
SHE paid for half of everything
HIS ambition was to be a Bowler.

SHE was 110% in love with her boyfriend.

Asians are different for sure.. my girl is Filipina and while I make more than her she dosen't care about the money like that her parents are doing very well. She threw up the idea of a joint savings account.. I'm still iffy about that but I can say most of the time when we go out we split be it food or clothes.. yeah my wardrobe needs a bit of a upgrade she says.

I made enough last year that I can put money aside now for a home

 

[Von]

Women tends to be more careful with the money they invest.

They do have a harder relationship with money than male overall.

Finance is one of the biggest reason for divorce... I bet it relates to debts.

I gave my Ex-GF my credit card once.... She came back with a bill of 200$ for a dress....

I WAS MAD... until she showed me the price tag... 2000$.
togethermanage to get a 90% discount on her dress using my cash.

I would be a billionaire right now if our relationship would have survived.

She would put 50% of her income in savings.

She was a budget - great deal type of girl.

The girl might respect a guy who makes more money in the couple... sure... but that's more and more rare.

My mom made 400 times what my dad made for the past 28 years... My dad is the one who set my mother to launch her business. His decision paid off.
They been together almost 35 years now.

Joint account for the family/couple dealings should be mandatory, the rest is in separate accounts.

Like a know a couple... He's a physician (medical doctor) and she's a nurse... the guy makes 400 000$ and his GF makes 70 000$ .... They live on her salary and they invest his salary.

Also couples tends to have the same investment patterns... same type of investments, same amount when they do it together.

I would recommend a pro-rata (% allocation) of the spending depending on the income of each.
Set also a saving patterns (mine is 25% gross income)
Find the money for each use.

Avoid girls with bad shopping habits or guys who don't count.

Finance is a culture

 

[Urbanyst]

So, you just dangle the money or the appearance of money in her face for as long as she will have sex with you, until she realizes you're stringing her along and dumps you? I suppose that's a good strategy to lure women to sleep with you and 'ride' it until the jig is up.

For that, you don't actually need a lot of money, you just need to buy one good second hand Hugo Boss suit, maybe lease a Lexus. A lot of guys fake status to get laid just like a lot of women fake attraction to get rich men, and it works for both.

True, but its always better (and easier) to be the real thing.

Looks, MONEY, and status are the rule of law when it comes to consistently attracting HOT women.

 

[Trump]

As a person of means I frankly have to be careful of guys looking for a sugar mama (no thank you). Just as successful men have to be careful of the gold diggers and the "Oops, I'm pregnant" chicks. Having money is great and all, but it can create problems that are different than the ones it solves.

+1

The best way to be certain somebody isn't interested in one's money is to be crystal clear that combining financial means is off limits. That tends to expose financial motivation rather succinctly.

That's hilarious. I was allegedly engaged to this girl I've known a long time, I told her she would have to sign a prenup and things would be separate, no combining of assets. She said ok. Then when she saw the prenup and the amount of the assets, she said no way, it's not fair to her and there is no way we are keeping assets separate. Her parents said a marriage means everything is combined.

I initially tried to reason with her but she destroyed me so I have avoided the topic since. Guess I'm not getting married or having kids because of money.

But sosuave members, make sure you get money get money get money. It's all all all about the money. I mean, if you live in 1.2 M penthouse you will be alone Friday night, but you live in 2.2 M penthouse, THEN the girls will care about you.

Give me a break.

 

[Murk]

My ex wasn’t happy I made her split meals and **** with me towards the end. I was burnt out of the relationship and spend way more money than she did on my for example if we met for drinks I’d get the first 3-4 drinks she may offer to get a drink, this went on for a while and drinks in central London are not cheap. Anyway I was determined not to spend so much and not pay for expensive big meals (I think only once she paid for a meal for me) then she starts saying I don’t do enough romantic gestures and take her to nice dinners (was definitely not gonna happen).

I told her I’m saving for a house, she said “bullsh!t”, I told her I have no parents and effectively must take care of my current house and bills all alone, her response was aren’t you in a £100k job, I told her I’ve only been here 8 months and my income is rising each month.

Anyway, she totally lost me when she started wanting me to spend money on her and questioning my finances, my bills are way more than her as she lives in a shared house with 5 others while I’m all alone, without the bank of mum and dad or generous family members and no bailouts if I misjudge my spending.

Even for women who seem like money isn’t an issue, it secretly is, unless they are loaded themselves but that’s rare.