"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Biggest lies you were fed about women growing up

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Just saw a couple of girls on facebook post they're at the cinema about to watch Magic Mike XXL, commenting "Now we're going to look at good looking men :D:D". It disillusioned me to the point that it inspired me to make this thread because it reminds me of all the blue pill beta bullsh!t you grow up being actively and passively fed with in this society. Extra bonus is that they're both overweight smoker partyholics.

I think you can guess the lie I'm going to begin the thread with: Looks don't matter to women. The truth is that looks matter more than it does for men, women consider more men to look unappealing than vice versa, and that looks are/can be just one of the criteria women go on.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Looks get you in the door. Personality gets you invited for more or kicked to the curb.
 

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AttackFormation said:
I think you can guess the lie I'm going to begin the thread with: Looks don't matter to women. The truth is that looks matter more than it does for men,
To an extent. Its not the end all be all.. And looks mattering more to women than men, I don't agree with.
 

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Plenty of myths I heard growing up...

"You can never understand women."
"She doesn't know what she wants."
"Women don't make sense."

Women know exactly what they want and don't want. There IS a method to their madness. It might seem REALLY F-ed up from a man's perspective sometimes, but they know what they are doing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The biggest lie is the idea that women are morally superior to men.

This lie is told over and over to the masses to create a society full of white knights who will play cannon fodder on a woman's behalf.

Almost any women (even the ugly ones) can snap her fingers and some blubbering beta buffoon will come running to either protect her, entertain her, give her therapy, give her money or provide company.

Most men worship the ground women walk on because they were brainwashed growing up to believe women are royalty and they should make women their everything.
 
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Poon King said:
The biggest lie is the idea that women are morally superior to men.

This lie is told over and over to the masses to create a society full of white knights who will play cannon fodder on a woman's behalf.

Almost any women (even the ugly ones) can snap her fingers and some blubbering beta buffoon will come running to either protect her, entertain her, give her therapy, give her money or provide company.

Most men worship the ground women walk on because they were brainwashed growing up to believe women are royalty and they should make women their everything.
Is there any woman on the face of this earth who is your equal or half, who might understand your life, that you can laydown all the multi dating and enjoy partnering with. She's done her carousels and done with it...
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
Is there any woman on the face of this earth who is your equal or half, who might understand your life, that you can laydown all the multi dating and enjoy partnering with. She's done her carousels and done with it...
I've got a better question: Is there anything I can say that would remove all the conventional brainwashing you based your values on?

Where is it written that one must "partner up" at all? Men are taught at a young age to believe WOMEN = Happiness. As idiotic as this idea is.. most men buy into it once their southern head comes of age in their early teens and all the hormones start flowing.

So beta idiots become adults and spend their lives working towards "settling down" because.. after all.. what else is their to do with ones life? Travel the world? Nah. Invent something? Nah. Get old and fat with the first woman who lets you f*ck her the way you like to? YES!!

Miserable men are crucial to the functioning of society

Unhappy men join the army

Unhappy men bend over backwards to please women

Unhappy men do what their women say to "please" them including chores, errants and holding purses in malls

Unhappy men buy houses they cannot afford for women

Unhappy men are unable to think critically

Unhappy men follow "society's rules" in lockstep to try to be happy

Unhappy men make good slaves

Unhappy men throw their lives away and do not have the intelligence or will to ask why.
 

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Man I was fed pretty much all of them, I had a bpd mother and an emotionally void father who spent no time with me so i was left in the clutches of a depressed, bpd mother who had no idea about life to "raise" me

When I went out the front door for the last time at 17 I was in no way shape or form prepared for life or how to deal with women.

"tell her how you feel"
"buy her flowers"
"write a poem"
"you just have to show her how much you care"

These were the glorious nuggets that were fed to me in those early days, and when they failed over and over again

"you just haven't met the right one yet"

When I met my BPD and she idealized me for 6 months I thought i actually had met "the one" because she loved all my beta afc'ness until she devalued me. ... oh what a horror story.

Still at least now i'm aware.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've got a better question: Is there anything I can say that would remove all the conventional brainwashing you based your values on?

Where is it written that one must "partner up" at all? Men are taught at a young age to believe WOMEN = Happiness. As idiotic as this idea is.. most men buy into it once their southern head comes of age in their early teens and all the hormones start flowing.

So beta idiots become adults and spend their lives working towards "settling down" because.. after all.. what else is their to do with ones life? Travel the world? Nah. Invent something? Nah. Get old and fat with the first woman who lets you f*ck her the way you like to? YES!!

Miserable men are crucial to the functioning of society

Unhappy men join the army

Unhappy men bend over backwards to please women

Unhappy men do what their women say to "please" them including chores, errants and holding purses in malls

Unhappy men buy houses they cannot afford for women

Unhappy men are unable to think critically

Unhappy men follow "society's rules" in lockstep to try to be happy

Unhappy men make good slaves

Unhappy men throw their lives away and do not have the intelligence or will to ask why.
Close thread
 

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The big myth for me growing up was that chivalry, kind deeds, being sweet would create interest. Took decades to shake that ****. I mean, that stuff is kind of ingrained in my personality, but it has NOTHING to do with getting a girl. It's just something I share with the right ones when they do the same for me.
 

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Poon King said:
Almost any women (even the ugly ones) can snap her fingers and some blubbering beta buffoon will come running to either protect her, entertain her, give her therapy, give her money or provide company.
How can you meet women if you don't have them as company?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Genius500 said:
How can you meet women if you don't have them as company?
Yeah but the difference is you do it on equal footing, i.e arranging to go on a date setting and do something that you both want to do when it suits both of you

not, getting a text from her at 8 on a saturday night because her girlfriends ditched her and she wants you to come over and watch 2 broke girls boxset with her but "just as friends tho"
 

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Infern0 said:
Yeah but the difference is you do it on equal footing, i.e arranging to go on a date setting and do something that you both want to do when it suits both of you

not, getting a text from her at 8 on a saturday night because her girlfriends ditched her and she wants you to come over and watch 2 broke girls boxset with her but "just as friends tho"
Maybe she would cry about being ditched by her girlfriends and give you a blow job for your trouble.
 

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Poon King said:
Miserable men are crucial to the functioning of society

Unhappy men join the army

Unhappy men bend over backwards to please women

Unhappy men do what their women say to "please" them including chores, errants and holding purses in malls

Unhappy men buy houses they cannot afford for women

Unhappy men are unable to think critically

Unhappy men follow "society's rules" in lockstep to try to be happy

Unhappy men make good slaves

Unhappy men throw their lives away and do not have the intelligence or will to ask why.
Mr Poon is one of the best posters on here. But to dismiss unhappy people as above is not necessarily right. Unhappy people do a lot of $hit that is not good for them or society away from a relationship sense. (Society means me and myself only because I don't give a $hit about you).
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
"Men are more sex crazed than women"
This....

The realization that women want and like sex more than men. What this means is that you don't have to do stuff or impress women to get them to want you. All you have to do is show up with a penis and be the best man that you can. It is so much fvcking easier.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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