I think your typical white American just approaches France with arrogance and entitlement stemmed from the reason above and just being an American. If you approach France differently then I think you will be fine regardless of your skin color. It’s just that non white Americans tend to not have those two attributes when visiting France.
With the black and Arab men with non-white women thing, I think it’s just personal choice.
1). French women aren’t bombshells in the first place. Plus, when you come from a Muslim culture, it’s easier to just marry another Muslim. In addition, fvcking is a lot different than marrying btw. Just because they married a brown girl doesn’t mean they didn’t fvck a lot of white girls beforehand. I don’t blame them tbh because the hottest women I saw in France weren’t the White French women lol.
2). You have a lot more competition in France vs a place like Germany. In Germany, your hottest girl might actually be the local German blonde girl. France is a more cosmopolitan international setting so you will have a much broader selection of women. If your default preference isn’t pale white women then you will more than likely not settle with that.
I think contrary to popular belief, the French are enamored with American culture. French men for sure aggressively go after American women, particularly of the White variety. I have also learned that French society is quite color heavy so they would likely forgive a White American for acting out of line and just put up with it as opposed to say an Asian, Black, or Hispanic American doing it.
As for your other take.
1. I'd say French women are on the higher end for Western European women and mix that in with them being more feminine, they are a far better catch than German, British, or even Scandinavian women (who tend to be quite macho and manly in behavior). They aren't Slavic women by any stretch of the imagination but amongst Western Europe? Easily the hottest.
It is completely plausible that the Mahrez and Benzemas of the world slept with White French girls but you start to notice the trends as to why almost none of them are marrying or LTRing one and you start to ask questions about French society. Meanwhile, even in the UK, you are consistently getting minorities of all kinds marrying White British women who aren't exactly known for their looks and are commonly regarded as the ugliest women in the world.
2. I disagree with that. The average Frenchman is meek and spineless compared to the average German who is tall, muscular, and a prototypical Chad. In fact, the average Arab in Germany is way better looking in the aesthetics department. He is likely to be a Turk or a good looking type of Middle Eastern guy. Meanwhile, France has a lot of North African men who aren't exactly known for their looks, at least not the Algerians, only Egyptians hit it out of the ball park in the looks and desirability department.
Maybe it is a matter of Germany having better looking Middle Eastern dudes and said Turkish dude who slays in Germany would clean up in France.