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Biggest difference I have noticed gaming in the US vs. Europe.

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Lets just say that it does not sit well with Frenchmen when they see French women hooking up with American, Canadian, Aussie, and non-Euro men in general.

Kind of hypocritical given how much they go across the globe harassing women themselves.
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Granted, my American friends do say that French women are rather easy and they enjoy an elevated status for being Americans.
No offense to your friends but being American in Europe means very little. I don't think that's been a source of status for several decades. They probably just have charisma and know how to talk to women.
 

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I’m in Portugal right now, and I definitely prefer athe female vibe here compared to other European countries. I’m seeing beautiful women of all colors with real natural bodies, not the super skinny flat look, and they’re not smoking cigarettes or looking like they party all night twice a week. Plus, I’m getting IOIs here :p
Love the ones with olive skin and green eyes there.
 

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No offense to your friends but being American in Europe means very little. I don't think that's been a source of status for several decades. They probably just have charisma and know how to talk to women.
I do not think it really matters from where you are In most places of the world, in the sense of getting an advantage of being X or Y nationality

unless ofc maybe going to very under developed countries, but there you will get into different type of problems … like for example not being able to speak any other language than their own due to little to no education so you will have a big language barrier and most likely you will mostly end up paying for sex
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I’m in Portugal right now, and I definitely prefer athe female vibe here compared to other European countries. I’m seeing beautiful women of all colors with real natural bodies, not the super skinny flat look, and they’re not smoking cigarettes or looking like they party all night twice a week. Plus, I’m getting IOIs here :p
I don’t find Portuguese women THAT attractive, but they are very nice, humble, and kind.
 

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I do not think it really matters from where you are In most places of the world, in the sense of getting an advantage of being X or Y nationality

unless ofc maybe going to very under developed countries, but there you will get into different type of problems … like for example not being able to speak any other language than their own due to little to no education so you will have a big language barrier and most likely you will mostly end up paying for sex
Idk, I think Americans generally have a neutral or Meh reputation in general compared to other cultures. Hell, even I don’t have a positive opinion of them while abroad.
 

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Hi Cornbread,
Well,US citizens are very popular down here,they are generally quiet,polite,abstemious and best of all they tip LOL.
 

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1. French guys are the biggest leeches by far. Not sure what it is but I have noticed this behavior from them everywhere. Be it here in the US or even in Montreal. When my friends shared their experiences in Paris, I had no doubts from my own experiences. If I did not have those experiences, I would have thought my friends were making stuff up.

After hearing what I have heard about Frenchmen, I finally understand why they are so despised worldwide. I used to think it was just some strange little meme but even the ones I have met in the Game community are downright deceitful and envious. Thing is I used to love the French growing up and read the literature but after interacting with more than my fair share, the guys deserve all the hate they seem to get worldwide. Never met any group of guys more spiteful and hellbent on ruining someone else's time.
Maybe a lot of these Frenchmen are like our friend Raphael:

 

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No offense to your friends but being American in Europe means very little. I don't think that's been a source of status for several decades. They probably just have charisma and know how to talk to women.
I disagree. From what they have told me along with actual French people, Western Europeans in general, there is interest towards American culture since Americans are seen as the innovators. Obviously the objective value of the guy matters, your typical Fat American will not get anything in Europe. However, there is fascination towards American music, celebrities, and others amongst the youth. Some even want to move to an NYC or LA since they glamorized it in film.
 

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I disagree. From what they have told me along with actual French people, Western Europeans in general, there is interest towards American culture since Americans are seen as the innovators. Obviously the objective value of the guy matters, your typical Fat American will not get anything in Europe. However, there is fascination towards American music, celebrities, and others amongst the youth. Some even want to move to an NYC or LA since they glamorized it in film.
"America! Clark-a Gable! Rita Hayworth-a!"
 

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I disagree. From what they have told me along with actual French people, Western Europeans in general, there is interest towards American culture since Americans are seen as the innovators. Obviously the objective value of the guy matters, your typical Fat American will not get anything in Europe. However, there is fascination towards American music, celebrities, and others amongst the youth. Some even want to move to an NYC or LA since they glamorized it in film.
I think there is some truth to the idea that non white Americans often have a smoother social experience in France. White Americans usually bring an American style, pan European view of race and inclusion, and that does not match the French approach to identity. Because of that difference, they do not always get the same warm cultural cousin treatment that they might receive in the United Kingdom or Ireland. That contrast can create tension or misunderstandings on both sides. When I went to France, the people were really friendly and approachable to me. White, black, blue, yellow, just be polite and open and not Francophobic.
 
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I’m guessing it’s multi generational. American GI’s started plucking off their best women in the 1940’s and have probably been a thing of legend ever since. We still have a massive presence over there and I doubt it ever really stopped. When our guys need a breather from blasting the heads off of terrorists they go fly into a European country or South Korea to relax and unwind. We’re ‘frenemies’. They need us, they can’t get rid of our guys, it must be incredibly frustrating.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think there is some truth to the idea that non white Americans often have a smoother social experience in France. White Americans usually bring an American style, pan European view of race and inclusion, and that does not match the French approach to identity. Because of that difference, they do not always get the same warm cultural cousin treatment that they might receive in the United Kingdom or Ireland. That contrast can create tension or misunderstandings on both sides. When I went to France, the people were really friendly and approachable to me. White, black, blue, yellow, just be polite and open and not Francophobic.
One of the guys I know laying pipe in Paris is white as a pumpkin pie Midwestern dude with blond hair. He even says that a number of Parisian women have a thing for that Aryan look because it is some weird complex. I am not sure how much truth there is to it but there are cucking competitions between French men and French women.

Since you do mention non-Whites, I do know of an Asian and a Brown guy, both Americans, doing alright in Paris but it did always get me.

Ever notice how a lot of France's top footballers are Arabs/North Africans in the past couple decades? Out of curiosity, I looked at their spouses. Almost none of them are married to White French women or laying pipe on em. All are married to either Muslim or Black women, including Benzema himself. If they get with a White girl, she isn't French. It kind of fascinated me.

Then by contrast, look at Germany. You have legend Sami Kheidera who helps the Germans win the World Cup and marries a top tier Aryan beauty in that country, something that seems non-existent in France.

The reason I bring this up is because when it comes to Arabs, I notice a difference in my experiences with them based on where in Europe they are from. French Arabs are some of the trashiest and sleaziest people I have known in my life. I cannot help but wonder if it is due to the fact that compared to Arabs anywhere else in Europe, they aren't getting any White local women.
 

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One of the guys I know laying pipe in Paris is white as a pumpkin pie Midwestern dude with blond hair. He even says that a number of Parisian women have a thing for that Aryan look because it is some weird complex. I am not sure how much truth there is to it but there are cucking competitions between French men and French women.

Since you do mention non-Whites, I do know of an Asian and a Brown guy, both Americans, doing alright in Paris but it did always get me.

Ever notice how a lot of France's top footballers are Arabs/North Africans in the past couple decades? Out of curiosity, I looked at their spouses. Almost none of them are married to White French women or laying pipe on em. All are married to either Muslim or Black women, including Benzema himself. If they get with a White girl, she isn't French. It kind of fascinated me.

Then by contrast, look at Germany. You have legend Sami Kheidera who helps the Germans win the World Cup and marries a top tier Aryan beauty in that country, something that seems non-existent in France.

The reason I bring this up is because when it comes to Arabs, I notice a difference in my experiences with them based on where in Europe they are from. French Arabs are some of the trashiest and sleaziest people I have known in my life. I cannot help but wonder if it is due to the fact that compared to Arabs anywhere else in Europe, they aren't getting any White local women.
I think your typical white American just approaches France with arrogance and entitlement stemmed from the reason above and just being an American. If you approach France differently then I think you will be fine regardless of your skin color. It’s just that non white Americans tend to not have those two attributes when visiting France.

With the black and Arab men with non-white women thing, I think it’s just personal choice.

1). French women aren’t bombshells in the first place. Plus, when you come from a Muslim culture, it’s easier to just marry another Muslim. In addition, fvcking is a lot different than marrying btw. Just because they married a brown girl doesn’t mean they didn’t fvck a lot of white girls beforehand. I don’t blame them tbh because the hottest women I saw in France weren’t the White French women lol.

2). You have a lot more competition in France vs a place like Germany. In Germany, your hottest girl might actually be the local German blonde girl. France is a more cosmopolitan international setting so you will have a much broader selection of women. If your default preference isn’t pale white women then you will more than likely not settle with that.
 

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I think your typical white American just approaches France with arrogance and entitlement stemmed from the reason above and just being an American. If you approach France differently then I think you will be fine regardless of your skin color. It’s just that non white Americans tend to not have those two attributes when visiting France.

With the black and Arab men with non-white women thing, I think it’s just personal choice.

1). French women aren’t bombshells in the first place. Plus, when you come from a Muslim culture, it’s easier to just marry another Muslim. In addition, fvcking is a lot different than marrying btw. Just because they married a brown girl doesn’t mean they didn’t fvck a lot of white girls beforehand. I don’t blame them tbh because the hottest women I saw in France weren’t the White French women lol.

2). You have a lot more competition in France vs a place like Germany. In Germany, your hottest girl might actually be the local German blonde girl. France is a more cosmopolitan international setting so you will have a much broader selection of women. If your default preference isn’t pale white women then you will more than likely not settle with that.
I think contrary to popular belief, the French are enamored with American culture. French men for sure aggressively go after American women, particularly of the White variety. I have also learned that French society is quite color heavy so they would likely forgive a White American for acting out of line and just put up with it as opposed to say an Asian, Black, or Hispanic American doing it.

As for your other take.

1. I'd say French women are on the higher end for Western European women and mix that in with them being more feminine, they are a far better catch than German, British, or even Scandinavian women (who tend to be quite macho and manly in behavior). They aren't Slavic women by any stretch of the imagination but amongst Western Europe? Easily the hottest.

It is completely plausible that the Mahrez and Benzemas of the world slept with White French girls but you start to notice the trends as to why almost none of them are marrying or LTRing one and you start to ask questions about French society. Meanwhile, even in the UK, you are consistently getting minorities of all kinds marrying White British women who aren't exactly known for their looks and are commonly regarded as the ugliest women in the world.

2. I disagree with that. The average Frenchman is meek and spineless compared to the average German who is tall, muscular, and a prototypical Chad. In fact, the average Arab in Germany is way better looking in the aesthetics department. He is likely to be a Turk or a good looking type of Middle Eastern guy. Meanwhile, France has a lot of North African men who aren't exactly known for their looks, at least not the Algerians, only Egyptians hit it out of the ball park in the looks and desirability department.

Maybe it is a matter of Germany having better looking Middle Eastern dudes and said Turkish dude who slays in Germany would clean up in France.
 

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I’m guessing it’s multi generational. American GI’s started plucking off their best women in the 1940’s and have probably been a thing of legend ever since. We still have a massive presence over there and I doubt it ever really stopped. When our guys need a breather from blasting the heads off of terrorists they go fly into a European country or South Korea to relax and unwind. We’re ‘frenemies’. They need us, they can’t get rid of our guys, it must be incredibly frustrating.
I wonder if it is country dependent though. For sure GIs with German women, especially Black GIs with German women, is a thing. I had a number of friends growing up who were of this mix. Does not seem so prominent with other Western European countries unless I am missing something.
 

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Hi Cornbread,
Well,US citizens are very popular down here,they are generally quiet,polite,abstemious and best of all they tip LOL.
Travelling to Australia from the U.S. is not cheap. The average American visitor you get down under is probably from a different socio-economic background compared to Cornbread and his Walmart brethren.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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