"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Biggest change with race and game I have seen in 2020.

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This is primarily based on what I have seen in nightclubs that attract a mainly 20s crowd and have a stricter door policy.

I feel like growing up compared to now, there is a big change I have seen when it comes to race and game. Back many many years ago it seem like either white guys were slaying or you had black guys slaying.

Ever since maybe when Despacito got popular or Narcos really took off on Netflix, I started noticing a shift throughout America. I see a lot more ethnic dudes (Latino, Asian, Middle Eastern, and Indian) slaying and getting with hot girls. I'd say Latino guys seem to slay the hardest and in some cases just as hard as white guys do these days.

I do see a lot more white girls that are young and hot with ethnic dudes but something else I have seen is that ethnic women themselves that are hot are sticking to their men more too. While it is more common to see a white guy with an ethnic girl, it isn't as uneven as it used to be, you see just as many white girls with Hispanic or brown or even Asian dudes.

Now a days whenever I go out, I almost always see some sort of an ethnic dude with a hot white chick and ethnic guys with hot girls of their own race a lot more too. I see more Crazy Rich Asian scenarios where the hottest Asian girls are out with Asian Chads, something you did not see in say 2005.

As a whole I am starting to see more slayers and Chads that are ethnic.

Could it just be an American thing now?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is primarily based on what I have seen in nightclubs that attract a mainly 20s crowd and have a stricter door policy.

I feel like growing up compared to now, there is a big change I have seen when it comes to race and game. Back many many years ago it seem like either white guys were slaying or you had black guys slaying.

Ever since maybe when Despacito got popular or Narcos really took off on Netflix, I started noticing a shift throughout America. I see a lot more ethnic dudes (Latino, Asian, Middle Eastern, and Indian) slaying and getting with hot girls. I'd say Latino guys seem to slay the hardest and in some cases just as hard as white guys do these days.

I do see a lot more white girls that are young and hot with ethnic dudes but something else I have seen is that ethnic women themselves that are hot are sticking to their men more too. While it is more common to see a white guy with an ethnic girl, it isn't as uneven as it used to be, you see just as many white girls with Hispanic or brown or even Asian dudes.

Now a days whenever I go out, I almost always see some sort of an ethnic dude with a hot white chick and ethnic guys with hot girls of their own race a lot more too. I see more Crazy Rich Asian scenarios where the hottest Asian girls are out with Asian Chads, something you did not see in say 2005.

As a whole I am starting to see more slayers and Chads that are ethnic.

Could it just be an American thing now?
Everyone here says if I went to the west coast like California I'd have no problem scoring Asian women. Problem is cost of living out there. I find Japanese and Korean women to be very sexy.

Also, a lot of the Middle Eastern guys have money too.
 

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Everyone here says if I went to the west coast like California I'd have no problem scoring Asian women. Problem is cost of living out there. I find Japanese and Korean women to be very sexy.

Also, a lot of the Middle Eastern guys have money too.
I believe in the near future the cost of living in San Francisco will go down due to the California exodus.....S.A.L.T. taxes are now capped so places like SF, where property taxes are insane, are experiencing an exodus....

.....this means maybe you can soon migrate out to SF and find yourself an Asian waifu.....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I believe in the near future the cost of living in San Francisco will go down due to the California exodus.....S.A.L.T. taxes are now capped so places like SF, where property taxes are insane, are experiencing an exodus....

.....this means maybe you can soon migrate out to SF and find yourself an Asian waifu.....
The one poster in the pics thread posted pics of his current and ex Asian wives! Man, they're HB9. If that is what is in Cali I MUST go there.
 

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Status has changed over the years. There are more ethnic dudes in white collar work than before. Doctors,lawyers, programmers etc.Granted a ethnic dude has to make more than a white male given the same job but its better than nothing. Indian guys slay where I'm from.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Status has changed over the years. There are more ethnic dudes in white collar work than before. Doctors,lawyers, programmers etc.Granted a ethnic dude has to make more than a white male given the same job but its better than nothing. Indian guys slay where I'm from.
You in NYC or Chicago? They get it done there. In the single life women will dabble and expirament.
 

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Something tells me you hate your own race.
 

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What’s the end game here, Gao?

Even if you had definitive answers to all of these racial pairing questions, what’s it going to do for YOU?

Melatonin change operation to max plates?

Ethnic surgery for a bigger penis?

Or are you just going to kind of Frankenstein it? You know... pull the best from each group kind of thing.... Black penis, Scandinavian blonde hair, Mediterranean accent, Latin dance moves...

Super slay.

lol. Wtf.
I completely get you on the "Frankenstein". Heard it before. So a real "player" is going to be multi-faceted. He may have a default environment, but he will be able to take someone into other activities and environments outside of his default. So a guy maybe able to Salsa dance, Swing out, or even Country dance because he knows it's entertaining.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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