TK
Don Juan
I'd really like to know what workouts I can do to get bigger hands and fingers.
Thanks
TK
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TK
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Besides this????Originally posted by Sociopath31:
There is one excersize. Stand up, facing your bed, and put your hands on the edge. Now, keeping contact with the bed, drop down to your knees. Now clasp your hands together infront of you with fingers strait.
Now close your eyes and say, "God, please make my hands bigger."
Originally posted by TK:
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Guys, I'd really like a answer to my question and no I don't wanna get obese just to have more fat in my hands.Originally posted by Selfesteemboy:
get very obese so you have more fat on your hands
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lmao that was hilariousOriginally posted by Sociopath31:
There is one excersize. Stand up, facing your bed, and put your hands on the edge. Now, keeping contact with the bed, drop down to your knees. Now clasp your hands together infront of you with fingers strait.
Now close your eyes and say, "God, please make my hands bigger."
Heh, dammit Socio, just because you're a mod does NOT give you the right to make me spill my drink when reading the board...Originally posted by Sociopath31:
There is one excersize. Stand up, facing your bed, and put your hands on the edge. Now, keeping contact with the bed, drop down to your knees. Now clasp your hands together infront of you with fingers strait.
Now close your eyes and say, "God, please make my hands bigger."
AMEN!Originally posted by Sociopath31:
There is one excersize. Stand up, facing your bed, and put your hands on the edge. Now, keeping contact with the bed, drop down to your knees. Now clasp your hands together infront of you with fingers strait.
Now close your eyes and say, "God, please make my hands bigger."
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.