She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They don't make designer clothes in big-n-tall sizes. If you really ARE working on the goal of losing weight, then it will give you something else to look forward to/another reason to continue.the305 said:i asked for articles on heavier set men in regards to style of dress, not a "just go to the gym and lose weight".
I know people who would like the immediate results of "looking better" as they work on the long term goal of losing weight.
one person gave valid info, and I appreciate it... this forum is cringe worthy at times.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Forgot to mention;SrDedosRapidos said:I am also a heavy guy. I am also hitting the gym. I too, want to look decent in the meantime. Just because I am heavy does not give me an excuse to dress like a fvcking slob. Grooming and a neat appearance apply to all.
Dark colors and vertical stripes. Nothing form fitting. The person who suggested googling Mike Lynche was spot on.