You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They don't make designer clothes in big-n-tall sizes. If you really ARE working on the goal of losing weight, then it will give you something else to look forward to/another reason to continue.the305 said:i asked for articles on heavier set men in regards to style of dress, not a "just go to the gym and lose weight".
I know people who would like the immediate results of "looking better" as they work on the long term goal of losing weight.
one person gave valid info, and I appreciate it... this forum is cringe worthy at times.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forgot to mention;SrDedosRapidos said:I am also a heavy guy. I am also hitting the gym. I too, want to look decent in the meantime. Just because I am heavy does not give me an excuse to dress like a fvcking slob. Grooming and a neat appearance apply to all.
Dark colors and vertical stripes. Nothing form fitting. The person who suggested googling Mike Lynche was spot on.