Hey fellas, how do yall feel bout big women? I find them to be very attractive and alot kinder than say skinnier women. My ex was a big girl and was very kind, giving, warm hearted and caring and all.. Too bad it ended cause she couldnt see me at my convenience.. but fellas what your thoughts on big girls?
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Do you mean that they are easier to get with because they are willing to settle for guys that other women won't give the time of day?
I'm not hating, I've dated a zaftig women but I've found that I'm more attracted to fit women that have good personalities. They may be harder to pull, but it's worth it.
On_the_Top
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Its all about personal prefence and what you like. Each person has their own definition of being "fit, skinny, medium, thick, large" your idea of large could be obese to one guy and just plain "thick" to another. Also depends on your culture as well, in some cultures skinny or fit women are looked down upon as well as in others thick, medium, or large women are.
I find skinny women disgusting, I'm not really attracted to large women, but I do like some "cushin" though.
I find skinny women disgusting, I'm not really attracted to large women, but I do like some "cushin" though.
I guess you and the artist Sir Mix alot have something in common. (Like them big butts?)
The reason is that they are nicer is because they know that they can't get much attension from other good looking guys as their skinner girlfriends and they hate them for it.
Same thing when a guy is a skinny/feminine afc's wuss, because he can't get attension from girls, his only stradgy is being nice to them and you know where that is going to lead.
You wouldn't choose Queen Latifah look alike over J-Lo look alike if both of them liked you? right.
The reason is that they are nicer is because they know that they can't get much attension from other good looking guys as their skinner girlfriends and they hate them for it.
Same thing when a guy is a skinny/feminine afc's wuss, because he can't get attension from girls, his only stradgy is being nice to them and you know where that is going to lead.
You wouldn't choose Queen Latifah look alike over J-Lo look alike if both of them liked you? right.
91redrotary
Don Juan
I absolutely cant stand big women. It's a shame too because thats all I seem to attract. I'm tall six three with a slim toned build 185lbs. My main issue with them is having sex. I ****ed a fat chick about two weeks ago and I couldn't keep my **** hard. She was beautiful in the face but when I looked down, all I saw was her fat ass stomach. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I love fit athletic women. Serena Williams HAS THE PERFECT BODY. Too bad she isn't that good looking though.
Player_Supreme
Banned
You must be a brotha. Your in the wrong place to ask that question homie...
I like em thick not big. But, if that is what you like, then hit it. Don't let these caucasian guys taste determine what turns you on.
I personally wouldn't fawk skinny flat arsed chicks. Those types are for the fellows with small dycks...so stick to what ya love and feel.
And when you hit all that fat...hit it so good they will holla my name...OHHH Supreme...ohh daddy...OHHH BIG DADDY...too much....OUCH...STOP...OUCH..OHH SHYT GOT DAM YOU BIG DYCKED MUTHA FAWKA...YOU BIG BALD HEADED BLACK MAN...GOT DAM YOU...DON'T STOP DADDY!!!
lol
I like em thick not big. But, if that is what you like, then hit it. Don't let these caucasian guys taste determine what turns you on.
I personally wouldn't fawk skinny flat arsed chicks. Those types are for the fellows with small dycks...so stick to what ya love and feel.
And when you hit all that fat...hit it so good they will holla my name...OHHH Supreme...ohh daddy...OHHH BIG DADDY...too much....OUCH...STOP...OUCH..OHH SHYT GOT DAM YOU BIG DYCKED MUTHA FAWKA...YOU BIG BALD HEADED BLACK MAN...GOT DAM YOU...DON'T STOP DADDY!!!
lol
Actually Player, Im not black, Im Indian though my dating history includes mostly black women..and like u, can't go with someone too skinny. They gotta have some meat on them , somethin good to hold onto and all ya know.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Question:
What color is your skin? Is is dark like mine? If so no wonder your tastes are similar...lol.
Ever see the movie with Denzel, "missisippi masala"?
To be blunt fat chicks are disgusting.
Right now I have a fat girl that is basically stalking me. I was walking my dog the other day when she just happened to see me out her window.
They invite me in and I don't want to appear to be a total prick so I oblige. Talk about white trash. This fat hoe is a variable grab bag of problems. You name it shes got it.
1. Zoloft (anti-depressents) litter the living room
2. Smokes about 2 packs a day
3. Weighs in excess of 200 pounds
4. Ugly
5. No Job
6. Can't drive because of medication shes on
7. Has been raped
8. Primarily dated black dudes until one raped her
9. Lives with mommy and is 23
10. Thinks she can sing country music.
Talk about luck. Can I get a stalker that looks halfway decent?
What would EAZY E DO??
Right now I have a fat girl that is basically stalking me. I was walking my dog the other day when she just happened to see me out her window.
They invite me in and I don't want to appear to be a total prick so I oblige. Talk about white trash. This fat hoe is a variable grab bag of problems. You name it shes got it.
1. Zoloft (anti-depressents) litter the living room
2. Smokes about 2 packs a day
3. Weighs in excess of 200 pounds
4. Ugly
5. No Job
6. Can't drive because of medication shes on
7. Has been raped
8. Primarily dated black dudes until one raped her
9. Lives with mommy and is 23
10. Thinks she can sing country music.
Talk about luck. Can I get a stalker that looks halfway decent?
What would EAZY E DO??
biita meat
I like a bit of meat, not too much but Cameron Diaz makes me wanna puke, I can hear her hips snap as you bang her.
A pert ass, thick upper thighs, preferably with a key hole and a face that is appealing.
I like a bit of meat, not too much but Cameron Diaz makes me wanna puke, I can hear her hips snap as you bang her.
A pert ass, thick upper thighs, preferably with a key hole and a face that is appealing.
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
As the saying goes, the bigger the cushion, the better the pushin'.
It's a balance though. Obese is not attractive, but nor is a woman with the figure of a 12 year old boy.
It's a balance though. Obese is not attractive, but nor is a woman with the figure of a 12 year old boy.
Yo Player my skin is light brown.. yeah saw that movie, and was just in that situation bein with my girlfriend for more than 4 months. However, today im bout to call and break up with her because much as she is kind and nice, she can't ever hang out with me, except durin her lunch hour at work(which is 45 miles away). im like forget that, im not drivin 45 miles and back in Los Angeles only to spend 45 minutes. I'll just find someone new who is willing to hang out more.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I hear 'ya on all points. I've met some large women with a killer face but I just can't deal will the weight anymore. And yeah, I tend to attract them too. It's not fun to turn them down because the bulk of them (hehe) are really nice. Some still get mad though and hate because I prefer fit women. Serena does have a slammin' body (now there's the TRUE definition of thick) but you're right, she's not that attractive.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Casino
To each his own. I don't like fat either but with meat and thick yeah...
Sart
Nice!
Ladawg
you sound like a true nucca. I have brown skin also. I dumped a girl cause she moved a bit too far away, about 20 minute drive on the freeway. I was young back then.
Francisco
LOL
To each his own. I don't like fat either but with meat and thick yeah...
Sart
Nice!
Ladawg
you sound like a true nucca. I have brown skin also. I dumped a girl cause she moved a bit too far away, about 20 minute drive on the freeway. I was young back then.
Francisco
LOL
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
i cant date a girl who is fat at all...then again i date mostly white girls. and non-tan white fat is ****ing nasty!
I see what u sayin Playa.. How old are u now? Im 21. its not that I have a problem drivin on the freeway(everywhere in L.A. requires a freeway drive), its just that if im gonna drive that long, im going to want to spend at least a few hours and do some action oriented things you know. Plus I hope my next woman has a car so if there is a distance like this, at least me and her can meet halfway. where u from Player?
Oh yeah, I just called her and I pretty much LJBF'd her. Women LJBF us all the time, so they should be able to handle it when we do it to them. I told her how special she was, how she meant alot to me and all but that we should move on because our schedules are too different and that Id like to keep her around as a friend. She said, "Thats fine" after I said each of those things. Im glad it went peacefully and now time to be a DJ and find other women.
Oh yeah, I just called her and I pretty much LJBF'd her. Women LJBF us all the time, so they should be able to handle it when we do it to them. I told her how special she was, how she meant alot to me and all but that we should move on because our schedules are too different and that Id like to keep her around as a friend. She said, "Thats fine" after I said each of those things. Im glad it went peacefully and now time to be a DJ and find other women.
Player_Supreme
Banned
1. I'm old enough to be your daddy...lol 45. What I have learned is that if it ain't workin for you...then get out early before you get your feelings hurt. If that drive is buggin and she ain't making time to hook up with you...why wait like a dog for it's master. There are too many other women out there who WILL make time for you.
It just ended with my primary one last week. I had just opened the door with another one who works hard at pleasing me. The old one gave 25%. The new one 100%. The rubs my feet and neck and back...cooks anything I want at anytime I want it...and any thing I desire in bed of course and she is a programmer and data base manager so she is helping me put up my website...
the last one...she is working hard to support her kids so I understood about her time...but in the long run it's your life and you must come first.
2. Yes now it's time to spread your wings and attract more honey to your nest.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Tagging an elephant is almost a right of passage for a guy. I can't think of one friend of mine who hasn't got after it with a land-monster at least once in his youth. Alcohol is a helluva drug.
I think most guys who claim to prefer women with 'great personalities' tend to get caught up in the attention they're given by these girls. Fat chicks try harder, simple as that. It comes from deprivation, they'll do ANYTHING to keep you in the net and when you make the obligatory comparison to the hotter girls you've been with their performance capacity tends to be so unlike any other prior experience. It's literally too easy.
It's almost the same dynamic for younger guys and older women. The sexual discriminative resistance factor is generally decreased due to deprivation or other psychological factors (older women wanting to believe "they've still got it" for instance) and guys not as successful with physically more attractive women or girls around their own age find they get somewhere with these women by changing their conditions for intimacy. The problems arise when a fat chick 'accidentally' becomes pregnant in order to keep the guy permanently or the guy 'falls in love' with the older woman and marries her.
I'm not disallowing personal preferences for certain body types, but I think there's a lot more at play in developing these preferences that goes unsaid.
I think most guys who claim to prefer women with 'great personalities' tend to get caught up in the attention they're given by these girls. Fat chicks try harder, simple as that. It comes from deprivation, they'll do ANYTHING to keep you in the net and when you make the obligatory comparison to the hotter girls you've been with their performance capacity tends to be so unlike any other prior experience. It's literally too easy.
It's almost the same dynamic for younger guys and older women. The sexual discriminative resistance factor is generally decreased due to deprivation or other psychological factors (older women wanting to believe "they've still got it" for instance) and guys not as successful with physically more attractive women or girls around their own age find they get somewhere with these women by changing their conditions for intimacy. The problems arise when a fat chick 'accidentally' becomes pregnant in order to keep the guy permanently or the guy 'falls in love' with the older woman and marries her.
I'm not disallowing personal preferences for certain body types, but I think there's a lot more at play in developing these preferences that goes unsaid.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You made several good points. I think that there is more 'settling' going on than people realize. The attraction may have grown for their preference because of the points you made. I know that years ago I wasn't as selective and personality weighed a little heavier than looks. Now I'm just a shallow @sshole that wants it all, personality AND looks.
Don't get me wrong, to each his own and its all good. It just may be beneficial to sit back and consider the underlying reasons why you have your particular preference, what ever it may be.