Big problem... :P

[MusicMan450]

This is a questioning of my morals...

I've been best friends with this guy for 3-4 years now. We're inseparable. We're bros, and nothing comes between us. He's the best friend I have, and we'll probably be extremely good friends throughout our lives.

But here's the problem..

He dated a girl on the guard that we both had a thing for for about three months, then broke it off to pursue new relationships. Plus, we're sophomores, and she's a senior.

I still have a thing for her, and she really likes me. The college thing wouldn't be a problem, since the college she's going to is literally 15 minutes away. It takes longer for me to drive to her house than the college campus.

The problem is that this guy is my bro, and the whole "Never date a bro's ex" thing comes into play. Although, he has come out and said "I don't care if you date her".

So, should I steer clear of her, and just remain really good friends with her, as it was when they dated?

Or, should I sit down with my friend and say "Hey, me and ___ really like each other. Would you mind if we gave things a shot?"

What do you guys think...?

 

[Allurre]

Get into an honest discussion with him. That's what counts most. If he's mature enough, he'll let it slide and accept what's best for you.

 

[rocket87]

Talk to him and ask him honestly. If he is a true friend of yours he'll be honest with his feelings. We don't know him, so there's no way to judge this...