"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big problem... :P

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MusicMan450

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This is a questioning of my morals...

I've been best friends with this guy for 3-4 years now. We're inseparable. We're bros, and nothing comes between us. He's the best friend I have, and we'll probably be extremely good friends throughout our lives.

But here's the problem..

He dated a girl on the guard that we both had a thing for for about three months, then broke it off to pursue new relationships. Plus, we're sophomores, and she's a senior.

I still have a thing for her, and she really likes me. The college thing wouldn't be a problem, since the college she's going to is literally 15 minutes away. It takes longer for me to drive to her house than the college campus.

The problem is that this guy is my bro, and the whole "Never date a bro's ex" thing comes into play. Although, he has come out and said "I don't care if you date her".

So, should I steer clear of her, and just remain really good friends with her, as it was when they dated?

Or, should I sit down with my friend and say "Hey, me and ___ really like each other. Would you mind if we gave things a shot?"

What do you guys think...?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Talk to him and ask him honestly. If he is a true friend of yours he'll be honest with his feelings. We don't know him, so there's no way to judge this...
 
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