"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BIG LIST of C&F Responses to Common Questions
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
I agree.Originally posted by dj_spain
You won't go very far with this kind of answers, unless, of course, a psycho-slut is all you want.
Teasing is a must, but the answers above go overboard with ****iness.
And too much ****iness = overcompensating = insecure = AFC.
I'm warning you not to use this bull****. This are said to work well on DYD or mASF, but they have no real application in real life, unless for the immature bytches that fall for this kind of jerk-strategy, which are the ones that will have sex with you and will have sex with another guy one hour later.
Teasing girls from time to time stimulates them, and it shows that you're comfortable with yourself and comfortable in the presence of a girl. But the key is to understand that teasing has to be funny, smooth and charming. Timing is also very important with teasing. Don't do it 24/7, wait for the right moments.
Just my 0.02
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I dont work. I plan on marrying a girl and divorcing her for her money
2) What kind of car do you drive?
Car? What is that?
3) Do you play any sports?
Sports? Is masturbation a sport?
4) Do you date many women?
No women find me very self centered, but im too good for them anyway. What about you
(When she starts to answer) Anyways, lets get back to me
5) What do you do in your spare time?
I enjoy long walks on the beach, candlelight dinners and listening to Elton John
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I disagree strongly...Masf is one of the few places that people actually go out and test the material. Heck, I've said some of this stuff and it is money. You'd be suprised what you can get away with. I dont know how old you are but girls I've interacted with (16-20's) find this stuff funny. And girls who "fall for this" are not sluts or whatever immature name you call them. They are simply getting caught up in emotions, because you are projecting such a carefree frame.Originally posted by dj_spain
You won't go very far with this kind of answers, unless, of course, a psycho-slut is all you want.
Teasing is a must, but the answers above go overboard with ****iness.
And too much ****iness = overcompensating = insecure = AFC.
I'm warning you not to use this bull****. This are said to work well on DYD or mASF, but they have no real application in real life, unless for the immature bytches that fall for this kind of jerk-strategy, which are the ones that will have sex with you and will have sex with another guy one hour later.
Teasing girls from time to time stimulates them, and it shows that you're comfortable with yourself and comfortable in the presence of a girl. But the key is to understand that teasing has to be funny, smooth and charming. Timing is also very important with teasing. Don't do it 24/7, wait for the right moments.
Just my 0.02
The rest of the stuff was spot on though
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
habdragon08
Don Juan
How old are you
1.6 decades
Im 16, but you fill in your real age
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
I'll be honest... no offence to you.. but these make you sound really stupid/immature.
And not to mention that i'm sure a girl that you just met won't like the fact that you tell her that you masturbate alot
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Playful stuff sounds immature reading it on a forum, but with good deliver and a ****y smile...