"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
I agree.Originally posted by dj_spain
You won't go very far with this kind of answers, unless, of course, a psycho-slut is all you want.
Teasing is a must, but the answers above go overboard with ****iness.
And too much ****iness = overcompensating = insecure = AFC.
I'm warning you not to use this bull****. This are said to work well on DYD or mASF, but they have no real application in real life, unless for the immature bytches that fall for this kind of jerk-strategy, which are the ones that will have sex with you and will have sex with another guy one hour later.
Teasing girls from time to time stimulates them, and it shows that you're comfortable with yourself and comfortable in the presence of a girl. But the key is to understand that teasing has to be funny, smooth and charming. Timing is also very important with teasing. Don't do it 24/7, wait for the right moments.
Just my 0.02
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I dont work. I plan on marrying a girl and divorcing her for her money
2) What kind of car do you drive?
Car? What is that?
3) Do you play any sports?
Sports? Is masturbation a sport?
4) Do you date many women?
No women find me very self centered, but im too good for them anyway. What about you
(When she starts to answer) Anyways, lets get back to me
5) What do you do in your spare time?
I enjoy long walks on the beach, candlelight dinners and listening to Elton John
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I disagree strongly...Masf is one of the few places that people actually go out and test the material. Heck, I've said some of this stuff and it is money. You'd be suprised what you can get away with. I dont know how old you are but girls I've interacted with (16-20's) find this stuff funny. And girls who "fall for this" are not sluts or whatever immature name you call them. They are simply getting caught up in emotions, because you are projecting such a carefree frame.Originally posted by dj_spain
You won't go very far with this kind of answers, unless, of course, a psycho-slut is all you want.
Teasing is a must, but the answers above go overboard with ****iness.
And too much ****iness = overcompensating = insecure = AFC.
I'm warning you not to use this bull****. This are said to work well on DYD or mASF, but they have no real application in real life, unless for the immature bytches that fall for this kind of jerk-strategy, which are the ones that will have sex with you and will have sex with another guy one hour later.
Teasing girls from time to time stimulates them, and it shows that you're comfortable with yourself and comfortable in the presence of a girl. But the key is to understand that teasing has to be funny, smooth and charming. Timing is also very important with teasing. Don't do it 24/7, wait for the right moments.
Just my 0.02
The rest of the stuff was spot on though
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
habdragon08
Don Juan
How old are you
1.6 decades
Im 16, but you fill in your real age
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
I'll be honest... no offence to you.. but these make you sound really stupid/immature.
And not to mention that i'm sure a girl that you just met won't like the fact that you tell her that you masturbate alot
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Playful stuff sounds immature reading it on a forum, but with good deliver and a ****y smile...