Big fallacy on this site-Attraction

[Halo]

Looks are always important. Ultimately you'll need your personality, humor, C+F, etc, to maintain any sort of long term deal, or to supplement your looks, but if a girl is not physically attracted to you it's an exercise in futility.

This is simple biology. Countless studies have shown that our concept of beauty is highly correlated with symmetry, and that "beauty" is an indicator of things we can't see, like genetic health. We are attracted to beauty because we subconsciously want their genes for our offspring.

True, humanity does not operate in such a rigidly fatalistic way, but I contend that nature always rules in the end. Beauty is an asset. It always has been and it always will be.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by ManOMan
I understand your point about guys latching on to these theories/techniques too often, but it usually seems like its the guys (like me) who really don't have a full grasp on BUILDING attraction

I think this is another of the HUGE fallacies on this board. The idea that attraction can, in fact, be "built." It cannot. Attraction can only be sustained, or possibly bolstered, but never built from scratch. Anybody who thinks they have built an attraction is mistaken; there was always an attraction present, only you were able to expose it to the woman through your words/actions. It certainly did NOT just appear out of nowhere.

And yes, unfortunately, the foundation of attraction is looks in the majority of cases.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Accessories (watches), haircut and shoes. The better you have the better you look.

 

[Player_Supreme]

very true! Let me add this post from a pimp-tight dude named DaKidd:

The Front Factor
------------------


Whereas clout is who you actually are (or what you have
accomplished), a front is what you portray yourself to be (or the
potential you hold). Front + Clout = Status in Society. A good front
is necessary to draw hoes out without any extra effort (i.e. sympin') on
your part. For the record, clout is much more important than a front,
because as the name implies, that's exactly what it is: a front. Every
front has a back, and that back is called clout. I will go more into
clout in the next article.
God has given each and everybody something that when used
correctly, will attract members of the opposite sex. Some peoples
'gifts' are more apparent than others, but everybody has something. For
women, God gave them the ultimate drawing card....'nana. Just imagine
if men were given 'nana and the women had our 'jimmy'. Things would be
a lot different. I wouldn't be writing this right now, because my life
would be easy. I would be getting chased down everyday, getting offers
to go to the movies, out to dinner, taken shopping, you know, all of
that good stuff.
Our cards aren't as blatantly apparent. If you are lucky, and
society considers you good looking, then your front is already halfway
established, whether you know it or not. Some of us have to dig and
search ourselves to find out what our 'card' is. For example, maybe
someone isn't good looking, but is smart as all hell (i.e. Bill Gates).
If you can turn those smarts into money, there's your front. Hoes jock
stability and what a man can offer more than looks anyway (as evidenced
by ugly famous people with bomb ass wives). The key is, that every man
has SOMETHING....nice physique, athletic ability, sense of humor, high
intellegence....SOMETHING. All you have to do is figure out what yours
is, then accentuate it to make it stand out. Better yet, do something
with it to make a lot of LOOT. LOOT attracts HOES. Here are some
examples:

Note: These are basic 'Front + Clout = Status in Society' equations.
Nothing hard.

Athletic ability in basketball + NBA contract ($$$) = NBA Player
High intelligence + P.H.D. in Medicine ($$$) = Doctor
Sense of humor + nationwide audience ($$$) = Comedian
Good acting ability + starring role in movie ($$$) = Actor
Good looking + contract with top modeling agency ($$$) = Supermodel

Of course, the higher your 'Status', the higher quality hoes will
approach you without provocation.

See the general pattern?

The bottom line here is: If you build it, they will come. Women
are naturally attracted to men who have something to show for
themselves. How many 'love-at-first-sight' stories have you heard where
the broad falls head over heels for a bum on the street? Not many.
It's always some 'dashing' dude who is loaded, or displays a whole lot
of potential. When a broad is all in your mouth, talking about how nice
you look and how funny you are, you best believe she has taken into
account certain criteria that implies that you are somebody of worth, or
have the potential to be. Sometimes this is a concious act, sometimes
it's not.
A common mistake a lot of men make is to go above and beyond the
call to get a woman (i.e sympin'). Calling her all the time, taking her
out, all that good stuff. Then she ends up ditching that dude for a
better prospect. If that dude would just realize for a minute that if
he spent all that money he had spent on her....on HIMSELF, eventually
someone would approach HIM.
As a guideline, remember: front attracts, clout keeps. In the
meantime, do what you can to better your appearance. Kinda flabby or
skinny? Get in the gym. Take your 'chase-a-hoe' money, get some
creatine, get your buff on, and let the hoes chase YOU for a change.
The amount of time it takes to build an effective front varies per
individual. Some dudes come with a ready-made front, where others have
to start from scratch. It all comes down to how bad you want it. Or,
how sick you are of running behind women. At any rate, take care of
yourself, and everything else will fall into place. The sooner you
start, the sooner you finish.
Front and clout vary on effectiveness depending on your
environment. For example, my '92 Honda Accord on 16" chromies is all
the rage in Tucson, AZ, but it ain't SQUAT here in Las Vegas, NV. I'll
get into environmental factors in another article.
In conclusion, as quiet as it's kept, we men have the same
capability as women to do things our way...if we are dealing with broads
who are jocking the CRAP out of us. The key is utilizing our redeming
trait(s) and to build a marketable front out of it.


Field Exercise #2: Take one weekends worth of 'treat-a-trick-good'
money, and get a new outfit or a watch that goes "gleam! gleam!". See
if you notice a difference. The nicer your gear is, the more confident
you will feel. The more confident you feel, the more confident you
look. The more confident you look, the more hoes will holla.


Until next time,
The Kidd!!

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
What's so funny about this thread is how there are so many people posting their comments, and they have absolutely no clue on how women really work, and what women are really like.

It's funny how everyone thinks they know how women work. But the concrete evidence that proves this board is still in the darkages of understanding women is the fact that no one on here is able to get a 90% success rate with women.

But this post is true as hell. This whole site is just one big fallacy. And its a perfect example of the blind leading the blind (people who think they know women teaching the so called AFC's)

Oh Happy Day!!! Our Messiah has risen and come to sosuave to show all us fools the path out of the darkness. Finally all of the nonsense we've been reciting on this board will be put to rest, in favor of the righteous teachings of the Great God of Getting Laid. Show us the way, Oh Great One! We anxiously await your long-overdue words of wisdom.

Still waiting....


Still waiting....


And ... still ... waiting....

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by echo1212
So concentrate on the girls that have medium to high IL in you, and you'll save yourself alot of time, money, and embarrasment

Your absolutely 100 percent on the friggen MONEY. I have been ranting and raving about this since I got here. So many people here try all this hoopla and technical crap. There all worried about "Kino" and "Eye Contact", "Seduction Techniques" and other so called magical nonesense. Everyone wants a shortcurt, but it doesn't work that way.

People, keep it simple. Its ALL about IL. Thats it. Everything else is just small LITTLE pices of the pie. Without IL, your never getting anywhere.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

Whats even more funny is that you people think I will share my "secret" with you. Do you think I really care about proving anything to this board? no. I just want to point out, that you people are not at the center of the "pimping women universe" as you think you are. This board is closer to the dark ages on understanding women, and how to get women, than it is to the expert level it would like to think its at.

Ummm, how I get such great success is a closely, closely guarded secret.

Besides, there are too many irresponsible people on here. Most people on here are more concearned about "if they can" get great success than "if they should". Most people on here would weild the power of getting 90% success like some child who had just found his dad's gun.

I can just see HIV getting spread at an exponential rate with this kind of "chick getting power". God meant for man to have difficulty getting women for a reason. And as long as only one man, (me) has this ability, Im not harming nature, society, or anything. And thankfully Im responsible enough to keep my mouth shut about this. Though, I think I have said too much already.

As far as you people are concerned, Im full of ****, and I really dont have any 90% success ability with women, and we will just leave it at that. ;-)

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
And as long as only one man, (me) has this ability, Im not harming nature, society, or anything. And thankfully Im responsible enough to keep my mouth shut about this. Though, I think I have said too much already.

My my, You are truly a deity of the most eminent character. Our lowly community of misguided souls is certainly not worthy of the sagacious counsel that You alone could provide. Our inferior hearts and minds are insufficient to comprehend such enlightenments that only the one God of Getting Laid can transcend. Oh Noble One, I can only pray that some day we may be so dignified as to share in the boundless insights beheld within the most high and exalted mind of the one God of Getting Laid.

Hosanna!!! Hosanna On High!!!!

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

hey, remember, im full of **** ;-)

im just doing this all for attention ;-)

 

[Da-OnlyX]

God meant for man to have difficulty getting women for a reason.

1. Since when?

2. .....and the reason is.......

 

[Starman]

let me ask you folks something

Can you CREATE fear in a woman?

Can you create a smile or happiness in a woman?

Can you create Sadness in a woman?

can you get a girl EXCITED about something??

Im sure most of your answers would be a resounding YES

so if we are able to manipulate all these neurological functions in another human being, why cant Attraction be BUILT or created?

Now you may Say, Starman..those are all emotions..attraction is a biological neurological function

and I say, BREAK DOWN attraction, what does it consist of?

1) a Gut/intuitive feeling..derived from templates of what beauty/masculinity is..further molded by society's definition of beauty..and deep seated ideals of what masculinity and MANHOOD is like

arent these all, afterall, thought processes..attached with a myriad of emotion?

If I can teach a mentally ill person to become normal again, I can surely build attraction in a woman

I wish I could do a study of 6 women who initially found me unattractive and test my theory to exemplify attraction is just a series of biochemical, personality preferences, and triggers that could be heightened or even built from scratch

How many married women I have heard say "I wasnt initially attracted to him...blah blah blah"

God of getting laid--Simma DOwn Thumbelina..the only secret you have is being in the closet

only an insecure fool comes on here with "secrets", reads all the valuable info here and thinks he has a game so tight..that by revealing his "secrets" that he is threatening his chances of getting laid by over 3 billion possibilities of women

 

[echo1212]

Star, MAYBE you can build some level of attraction through personality and charm to get a date out of her, maybe... but...whats the point? You're spending alot of time, effort and probably money on something that more than likely wont work and at best will be a short fling because her original IL just wasn't there. I dont care what anyone says or how PC someone wants to make it, you're either hot for someone or you're not. I recently saw a study that most women decide within 5 minutes of meeting you whether you will be able to sleep with them or not. Thats not charm, personality, niceness, thats good ole' basic animal magnatism.

We've all felt what its like to see and talk to someone and "feel" that chemisrty..that extra sense of sexual attraction. There is no telling why we are attracted to some people and not to others, but I do know that it exists. But to spend all that effort when you can spend it on someone who DOES have high IL in you, its somewhat foolhardy don't you think-unless your ego just won't let a girl say no and you HAVE to have some kind of response from her.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

to Da-onlyX

your asking how and why nature/god has meant for us to have difficulty in getting women. and here is the answer:

If you know anything about natural selection, this would be obvious to you.

If a species genes is wipped out of the gene pool becuase of some trait that makes it unfit and unable to survive in the environment, it can be said nature does not want that organism to pass its gene on as long as it is living in this environment. or "god meant for that organism not to pass its genes on, and thus, god has wipped it out of the gene pool".

The same goes for humanity and getting women. Obviously man is struggling to get women. Man does not understand woman, and god/nature wanted it to be this way, otherwise, natural causality would have taken over, and you would have all found a way.

Through natural casuality, man has struggled, becuase nature/god has meant for man to struggle. NATURAL CAUSALITY ARE THE HANDS OF GOD/NATURE.

On the opposite perspective, there are some things nature/god has meant for man to do, such as fly, invent the nuclear bomb, and genetic cloning etc.

And how is this you might ask? well, its called natural inevitability. If the people that invented the N-bomb, genetic cloning, the air plane didnt invent those things(maybe they would die before they invented those things hypothetically speaking), it wouldnt matter, a couple of years, decades down the line, someone else would have invented those things. THe point is, those things were inevitable to be invented. It was in the fate of humanity that man would invent those things. So it can be said, god/nature meant for man to have nuclear bombs, genetic cloning, air planes etc.

And you are struggling with women right now becuase god/nature wants it to be that way. Or it can be said nature chooses favorites, and only meant for you people to struggle, but me, im the exception, and natural causality has endowed my with my ability.

But like I said, I really dont have any super women getting ability, Im just doing this for attention right? so lets just leave it at that.

 

[Starman]

Brother Echo,

We see Eye to Eye, and Horn to Horn

I was speaking hypothetically, meaning there is definitely alot of things aboot attraction we dont know about, or how it works, how to create it

YES, its definitely not worth expending this energy on one girl..but its an untapped area in Don Juanism and male/female social relationships that REALLY should be given further attention

I mean after all..just because you cant reach the highest apple in the tree..and have eaten all the lower ones already..does that mean we just die off..or think of new ways to reach the higher apples in the tree? or just because you are a midget do we just render it impossible?

*splashing on phermone cologne*

 

[echo1212]

Star, or if you're a pinata, do you just fall off the tree before getting the **** whacked out of you? Or in your case, do you let the pinata kill you?

 

[Starman]

God_of_Getting_played,

I see you sitting here basking in some glory that you might have gotten lucky with gods genetic pair of dice

not to mention making it seem like God likes YOU better than the other guys just because you may be better looking and easier for you to get laid

But even if you believe in this "Haha! God likes me more than yoU!!" crap, and you believe in natural selection..then you must definitely understand that when you are gifted in one area..you lack something in another (my guess is God may have given you looks and gyped you with intelligence)

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

STARMAN WROTE:

"I was speaking hypothetically, meaning there is definitely alot of things aboot attraction we dont know about, or how it works, how to create it"


This quote right here is Starman's admitance that I am right. That this board is in the dark ages on getting women like I stated.

I know this entire board sees things the same way. YOu are all just in denial about it. You dont want to admit your just as helpless as the AFC when it comes to getting women. You just like to believe you know what yall are doing.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

To starman,

when did I say it were my genetic factors that made me gifted with women?

Also, I dont beleive god gives a person a gift and an equal weakness. God doesnt think logically like humans. He could make one person all weakness and crap, and make another all gift and talent and perfection.

God is not equal or fair. If he were, retards would never have been born. If he were fair, there would be no third world hell on earth countries for misfortunate babies to be born into.

God/nature definitly doesnt think like a human, I can tell you that. the logic and thoughts of God/nature is something beyond human comprehension.

I always like to say, nature is based on a supernatural foundation. Meaning that the laws of nature have their own set of supernatural laws that govern them. Its like laws of nature that govern the laws of nature.

 

[Starman]

I never admitted you were right..I just said there are things we dont know about attraction..this is not a Admission that YOU do


if you do..send me an email..we'll be rich!!!

I just know if you send me a girl that I WASNT attracted to..then forced me to live on a desert Island with her for 4 months - 1 year..I would probably be attracted to her on some level..either by desperation..getting to know her..whatever the grey area is..

and THAT my friends is the grey area Im talking about

Attraction isnt black or white in my view..but a state of mind that could be altered..with such things as charm, manhood and roofies!

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I think the whole "women dont care about looks" myth was created by Ross Jeffries and David D'Angelo to get people to buy their book.

The following is an e-mail that a girl i know sent me:

"To be honest, looks are the first thing I'm attracted to. So when I when I approach the guys, I don't care what their GPA is or if mom would like you. I know it sounds really vain, but its the complete truth. Having a healthy body is important in getting my attention. Keeping my attention, though, requires the personality, interests, etc. (Unless I just want to be laid. )"