"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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big crush on her...

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Hello! :)

My story:
Saw a really pretty girl, and found her on facebook. First day she was like whatever, then a week later we talked some and really had some fun. The other day i mannaged to get her out on a drink...thats really amazing that she even said yes to a complete stranger on facebook ... it was kind of awkward..not too quiet though. She was shy, we even look into eachothers eyes a bit, but then looked away or she just started smiling :)
Now im obsessed I just wanna see her again, talk to her anything, im being too annoying andtalk with her 2 much...
What should i do? I cant help myself shes on my mind 24/7.

What do you guys do when you get into this? What should I do to not think about her...leave her alone for a couple of days and then maybe invite her out again?


Thanks :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dedicate yourself to your hobbies for a few days. Too much contact in the beginning is a bad start (had to learn this the hard way).
 
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TheMusic said:
Dedicate yourself to your hobbies for a few days. Too much contact in the beginning is a bad start (had to learn this the hard way).
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I know!
When we came home 5hours later i said if she wants to go anywhere (she actually said come to "a place" im there with my friends...it was raining like hell and also i was too afraid to meet her friends.
The other day i saw her in the disco (she was too wasted :/ )
Then the other day I asked her out and she said she has too much of a hangover... but still there were like a ton of dumb booring uselles conversations between those events...
I kind of f***ed up already a bit , If i slow down now maybe there is still hope..

Yea hobbies will help and no more facebook :D
Thanks, it is a lot easyer to talk with someone about it then just hold it in :)
 
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Its best to go from event to event, invite to invite. That means not having small talk conversations in between those. If you want to text her but you have nothing to say ("Hey whats up?" texts...) just dont send it.

If youre excited about someone, you can admit it, just admit it in the context of the next invitation to meet up.
 
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can I get some help on how to invite her out this week?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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