"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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theapprentice

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I was thinking of moving into a large city like Washington D.C or Manhattan Ny after I get a little older and get a better job. I was thinking of just rooming with a couple of people till I get enough money to get an apartment on my own.

Where would I meet new people in a big city where I dont know anyone?

What are the venues most people use?

If you could give me a list for example,

1. Internet
2. Clubs
3. Bars
4. Street Fairs

I know that some people my might say anywhere but its a known fact that some places are better than others.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theapprentice said:
I was thinking of moving into a large city like Washington D.C or Manhattan Ny after I get a little older and get a better job. I was thinking of just rooming with a couple of people till I get enough money to get an apartment on my own.

Where would I meet new people in a big city where I dont know anyone?

What are the venues most people use?

If you could give me a list for example,

1. Internet
2. Clubs
3. Bars
4. Street Fairs

I know that some people my might say anywhere but its a known fact that some places are better than others.

I have never lived in either city, but grew up about an hour and half south of NYC.

Both are expensive, but NYC is more so than D.C. Manhattan is the most expensive city in the United States, but Brooklyn, Queens and the Bronx are cheaper than Manhattan. A small apartment in Manhattan will probably cost you $1600 a month and upwards.

www.meetup.com is a good start.
 

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thx

Thats a good site.

But what is ones social life like after college is over and work begins?

Does it slow down?

I always imagined life to be full of friends and parties depending on who you are.
 

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hmm..

I have come to the conclusion that clubs, bars, and house parties are probably the best place to meet people outside of your social circle since they are more conducive.

I mean there just isnt any other place that offers the oppurtunity to hit on girls like these places will.

So for a don juan, a club or bar, or some type of party is a great place to get numbers and go on dates.

Or joining local groups is another way.

any more ideas.
 
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