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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I was thinking of moving into a large city like Washington D.C or Manhattan Ny after I get a little older and get a better job. I was thinking of just rooming with a couple of people till I get enough money to get an apartment on my own.

Where would I meet new people in a big city where I dont know anyone?

What are the venues most people use?

If you could give me a list for example,

1. Internet
2. Clubs
3. Bars
4. Street Fairs

I know that some people my might say anywhere but its a known fact that some places are better than others.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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theapprentice said:
I was thinking of moving into a large city like Washington D.C or Manhattan Ny after I get a little older and get a better job. I was thinking of just rooming with a couple of people till I get enough money to get an apartment on my own.

Where would I meet new people in a big city where I dont know anyone?

What are the venues most people use?

If you could give me a list for example,

1. Internet
2. Clubs
3. Bars
4. Street Fairs

I know that some people my might say anywhere but its a known fact that some places are better than others.

I have never lived in either city, but grew up about an hour and half south of NYC.

Both are expensive, but NYC is more so than D.C. Manhattan is the most expensive city in the United States, but Brooklyn, Queens and the Bronx are cheaper than Manhattan. A small apartment in Manhattan will probably cost you $1600 a month and upwards.

www.meetup.com is a good start.
 

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thx

Thats a good site.

But what is ones social life like after college is over and work begins?

Does it slow down?

I always imagined life to be full of friends and parties depending on who you are.
 

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hmm..

I have come to the conclusion that clubs, bars, and house parties are probably the best place to meet people outside of your social circle since they are more conducive.

I mean there just isnt any other place that offers the oppurtunity to hit on girls like these places will.

So for a don juan, a club or bar, or some type of party is a great place to get numbers and go on dates.

Or joining local groups is another way.

any more ideas.
 
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