Big boobs, bigger problem?

[JackBauer24]

I've noticed a trend. I see plenty of women I find attractive that don't have big chests, but I also seem to fall easily for girls that have big boobs and aren't chubby or fat. You're probably thinking, "what's so bad about that?" The problem is, most of these girls have an ugly, average and/or b*tchy looking face and usually have bad personalities and bad attitudes to go along with it.

Take this girl I had a crush on junior year of high school. She had her friends, but was also widely seen as b*tchy, and a follower, someone who would do anything to fit in. Snobby looking face, great body. So I'm all obsessed with her boobs, felt like "I had to get her" and all that stuff you've heard and probably been through before. So I spend months obsessing over her...other than a few friends, no one knew. So eventually it gets into the wrong hands and she found out. No exaggeration, we were both in the cafeteria, our tables far away, she runs to the bathroom, pretending she had to puke.

Long story short, didn't end my obsession with her and her boobs. Senior year, I find out that she has a younger sister, a sophomore, with even bigger boobs than her. This one I ask out directly, not telling anyone, she doesn't say no but she isn't interested. A week later, I see her pointing me out to her friends and laughing. I go up to her a few days later and tell her off.

Fast-forward to the present. I find a girl on myspace with big boobs, but don't like her face. No joke, I crop her head out of the picture so I can just wack off to her boobs. I start talking to her, she's a very snobby person and it takes me a while to digest that fact.

The girl from high school, the one in my grade, back then a friend told me "You wouldn't want her anyway." I thought he was just trying to cheer me up, but he knew what he was talking about. She wasn't a person you'd want to associate with.

The point is, this can happen with any girl, with or without big boobs, but it seems to be my downfall. I get so obsessed with the girl's chest, that I feel like I have to get her so I can see them and feel them.

My question is, let's say I meet a girl or girls that have the big chest but also are pretty and have a decent or good personality, will my boob obsession decrease after seeing and feeling a few pairs? It's almost like, if it came down to having an LTR, I'd want a girl with normal boobs so at least I'd be looking at her like the person she is.

 

[ducaro]

be careful of the booby trap!

 

[KarmaSutra]

be careful of the booby trap!

Goddamn you're whitebread. Do you say anything of worth or are you that desperate to reach Master Don Juan status that you spit these idiotic one liners all over the forums?

Even women who are attention slvts have a purpose. You do not.

 

[ducaro]

Goddamn you're whitebread. Do you say anything of worth or are you that desperate to reach Master Don Juan status that you spit these idiotic one liners all over the forums?

Even women who are attention slvts have a purpose. You do not.

Bwahahha.. Its amazing how I can manage to fVck with yer little condom inspired brains being so far away! You are the only chimp whoz even falling for what I have to say..! why are you even bothering?? whats happening to your don juan personality?? falling apart.. huh?? I am pretty darn sure you were a chick in your previous life mr 'karma' - cuz you whine so much and your are so 'affected'.. chill babe.. get yourself a beer or sVuck on something.. life will be better for you


''desperate to reach Master Don Juan status that you spit these idiotic one liners all over the forums''

Dayum, you are so superficial you could even think of something like that!!???

get off me - *flicks the female house fly of his hand*

 

[KarmaSutra]

get off me - *flicks the female house fly of his hand*

This is precisely how women on Instant Messenger programs type.

Infant in sagging skin. And don't flatter yourself about getting under my skin, I don't give a fvck about your bullsh!t life enough to waste my time.

 

[ducaro]

This is precisely how women on Instant Messenger programs type. QUOTE]

Peace dude. But that is soo true.^ thanks for the warning!

 

[Ace of Flames]

Damn, pissy pissy. You guys must be on the rag right now. Calm down.

Anyway, Jack, don't let the boobs control you! Yes, they're nice and all, but boobs aren't the be-all-end-all. You need to find girls that have more to offer than just a nice pair. Maybe then you'll see that a girl's more important qualities are more interesting than her melons.

 

[JackBauer24]

Nicely said Ace.

 

[Maxtro]

mmmmmmmm boobs.

I love boobs. I'm simply not interested in women that are smaller than a C. The problem is that if a woman is at least a C, has a rocking body, pretty and great hair, I will fall for her so fast.

 

[bigjohnson]

I'm more a face/ass/legs guy. Boobs are great looking in a sweater but outside that they're essentially 3 pounds of fat with a nipple.

 

[Potbelly]

I find a girl on myspace with big boobs, but don't like her face. No joke, I crop her head out of the picture so I can just wack off to her boobs.

ROFLOLMFAO!!!!!!

Dude, you have bigger issues than boobs. No pun intended.

 

[JackBauer24]

What was I supposed to do Potbelly, wack off to her annoying face?

 

[Nexus Polaris]

I can relate, Jack.

There is this tremendously breasted redhead I had probably stayed interested in long after I should have nexted her, but I still seem to find myself texting her (or I did, prior to losing all my old phone numbers) even when getting no replies. And just like in your experience, this girl isn't even that nice. In fact, her personality kind of sucks. She's stuck up and a gold digger.

These things have to be at least E's. They have this strange power over me that normal women do not. It sucks.

That is where I find a gaping hole in Mystery's concept of beauty being common. It is. But large natural breasts are not. And I'm with Maxtro, only I'll take it a step further. I'm really not as attracted to women below a D. Most of the girls I date are pretty stacked. And since breasts that big are so rare, I do find myself battling a sense of urgency that's not quite so prevalent in dealing with other women.

If I strike out with a hot girl, big deal. I'll see another one 5 minutes later. If I strike out with an E cup, I might not see one again for 2 years.

 

[JackBauer24]

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with liking big boobs, but when the face and personality aren't there, it should make the chest a moot point. They should be a bonus on an already nice, pretty girl.

It bothers me that I take these girls that would be 0-5 without their big boobs, and I get obsessed with their chest, because like Nexus said, a big, natural, proportionate chest isn't that common, especially on a girl that isn't chubby or fat.

 

[MacAvoy]

JackBauer,

When your older, you'll realize that there is more to the package than just a pretty face. Go after what turns you on and makes you happy. I'm a boob man myself, I'd much rather have a HB6 with a D cup than a HB9 with no rack.

However there is more than just face, personally I like volumptuous and curvy women, however most have pretty faces, I'm willing to put up with a "little" extra weight if she has a pretty face and the RIGHT curves.

 

[JackBauer24]

I can masturbate to pictures of a HB5 with big boobs because I can ignore her face and don't have to hear her talk, but what am I supposed to do in real life, put a bag over her head and a muzzle on her?

 

[MacAvoy]

There are alot of 6's & 7's out there with racks that have pretty faces. However if you've got a 5, its just like anything else, use it to your advantage. Use her ugliness to increase your stamina, then when your ready to come, focus on her good features, her beautiful rack.

Its just like when your doing a fat chick, you keep the lights off, have her keep her shirt on and enjoy the ride.

 

[ValleyDJing]

will my boob obsession decrease after seeing and feeling a few pairs?

uhhh...nope. Don't worry dude, there are tons of people out there with bigger boob obsessions than you, me being one of them.

 

[skirtChaser]

a HB9 with small boobs is not a HB9, small boobs is the equivalent of of a short guy, a lot issues about it, its all about the t it to a$$ ratio, huge t its and a flat a$$ is lame, huge a$$ and small t its are lame, and a face of pudding is never acceptable. I saw a blonde yesterday with a beautiful face, b cup and a wide a$$, "pass" was the first thing in my mind. big t its are a must. bigg breaasted women are better women, they make better gfs than a flatty, huge breast= more confidence, more securities than insecure, better mothers, more sucessful, more faithful, big boobs are a must, that's why women spend millions on boobs.

 

[Randallpink83]

The problem is that if a woman is at least a C, has a rocking body, pretty and great hair, I will fall for her so fast.

no sh!t huh? weird...


and Skirtchaser... How exactly do bigger boobs make a girl more faithful? lol... are they too weighted down to leave the house or something?