"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Big boobs, bigger problem?

JackBauer24

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I've noticed a trend. I see plenty of women I find attractive that don't have big chests, but I also seem to fall easily for girls that have big boobs and aren't chubby or fat. You're probably thinking, "what's so bad about that?" The problem is, most of these girls have an ugly, average and/or b*tchy looking face and usually have bad personalities and bad attitudes to go along with it.

Take this girl I had a crush on junior year of high school. She had her friends, but was also widely seen as b*tchy, and a follower, someone who would do anything to fit in. Snobby looking face, great body. So I'm all obsessed with her boobs, felt like "I had to get her" and all that stuff you've heard and probably been through before. So I spend months obsessing over her...other than a few friends, no one knew. So eventually it gets into the wrong hands and she found out. No exaggeration, we were both in the cafeteria, our tables far away, she runs to the bathroom, pretending she had to puke.

Long story short, didn't end my obsession with her and her boobs. Senior year, I find out that she has a younger sister, a sophomore, with even bigger boobs than her. This one I ask out directly, not telling anyone, she doesn't say no but she isn't interested. A week later, I see her pointing me out to her friends and laughing. I go up to her a few days later and tell her off.

Fast-forward to the present. I find a girl on myspace with big boobs, but don't like her face. No joke, I crop her head out of the picture so I can just wack off to her boobs. I start talking to her, she's a very snobby person and it takes me a while to digest that fact.

The girl from high school, the one in my grade, back then a friend told me "You wouldn't want her anyway." I thought he was just trying to cheer me up, but he knew what he was talking about. She wasn't a person you'd want to associate with.

The point is, this can happen with any girl, with or without big boobs, but it seems to be my downfall. I get so obsessed with the girl's chest, that I feel like I have to get her so I can see them and feel them.

My question is, let's say I meet a girl or girls that have the big chest but also are pretty and have a decent or good personality, will my boob obsession decrease after seeing and feeling a few pairs? It's almost like, if it came down to having an LTR, I'd want a girl with normal boobs so at least I'd be looking at her like the person she is.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ducaro said:
be careful of the booby trap!
Goddamn you're whitebread. Do you say anything of worth or are you that desperate to reach Master Don Juan status that you spit these idiotic one liners all over the forums?

Even women who are attention slvts have a purpose. You do not.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Goddamn you're whitebread. Do you say anything of worth or are you that desperate to reach Master Don Juan status that you spit these idiotic one liners all over the forums?

Even women who are attention slvts have a purpose. You do not.
Bwahahha.. Its amazing how I can manage to fVck with yer little condom inspired brains being so far away! You are the only chimp whoz even falling for what I have to say..! why are you even bothering?? whats happening to your don juan personality?? falling apart.. huh?? :p I am pretty darn sure you were a chick in your previous life mr 'karma' - cuz you whine so much and your are so 'affected'.. chill babe.. get yourself a beer or sVuck on something.. life will be better for you


''desperate to reach Master Don Juan status that you spit these idiotic one liners all over the forums''

Dayum, you are so superficial you could even think of something like that!!???

get off me - *flicks the female house fly of his hand*
 

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ducaro said:
get off me - *flicks the female house fly of his hand*
This is precisely how women on Instant Messenger programs type.

Infant in sagging skin. And don't flatter yourself about getting under my skin, I don't give a fvck about your bullsh!t life enough to waste my time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ducaro

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KarmaSutra said:
This is precisely how women on Instant Messenger programs type. QUOTE]

Peace dude. But that is soo true.^ thanks for the warning!
 

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Damn, pissy pissy. You guys must be on the rag right now. Calm down.

Anyway, Jack, don't let the boobs control you! Yes, they're nice and all, but boobs aren't the be-all-end-all. You need to find girls that have more to offer than just a nice pair. Maybe then you'll see that a girl's more important qualities are more interesting than her melons.
 

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mmmmmmmm boobs.

I love boobs. I'm simply not interested in women that are smaller than a C. The problem is that if a woman is at least a C, has a rocking body, pretty and great hair, I will fall for her so fast.
 

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I'm more a face/ass/legs guy. Boobs are great looking in a sweater but outside that they're essentially 3 pounds of fat with a nipple.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JackBauer24 said:
I find a girl on myspace with big boobs, but don't like her face. No joke, I crop her head out of the picture so I can just wack off to her boobs.
ROFLOLMFAO!!!!!!

Dude, you have bigger issues than boobs. No pun intended.
 

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I can relate, Jack.

There is this tremendously breasted redhead I had probably stayed interested in long after I should have nexted her, but I still seem to find myself texting her (or I did, prior to losing all my old phone numbers) even when getting no replies. And just like in your experience, this girl isn't even that nice. In fact, her personality kind of sucks. She's stuck up and a gold digger.

These things have to be at least E's. They have this strange power over me that normal women do not. It sucks.

That is where I find a gaping hole in Mystery's concept of beauty being common. It is. But large natural breasts are not. And I'm with Maxtro, only I'll take it a step further. I'm really not as attracted to women below a D. Most of the girls I date are pretty stacked. And since breasts that big are so rare, I do find myself battling a sense of urgency that's not quite so prevalent in dealing with other women.

If I strike out with a hot girl, big deal. I'll see another one 5 minutes later. If I strike out with an E cup, I might not see one again for 2 years.
 

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Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with liking big boobs, but when the face and personality aren't there, it should make the chest a moot point. They should be a bonus on an already nice, pretty girl.

It bothers me that I take these girls that would be 0-5 without their big boobs, and I get obsessed with their chest, because like Nexus said, a big, natural, proportionate chest isn't that common, especially on a girl that isn't chubby or fat.
 

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JackBauer,

When your older, you'll realize that there is more to the package than just a pretty face. Go after what turns you on and makes you happy. I'm a boob man myself, I'd much rather have a HB6 with a D cup than a HB9 with no rack.

However there is more than just face, personally I like volumptuous and curvy women, however most have pretty faces, I'm willing to put up with a "little" extra weight if she has a pretty face and the RIGHT curves.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JackBauer24

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I can masturbate to pictures of a HB5 with big boobs because I can ignore her face and don't have to hear her talk, but what am I supposed to do in real life, put a bag over her head and a muzzle on her?
 

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There are alot of 6's & 7's out there with racks that have pretty faces. However if you've got a 5, its just like anything else, use it to your advantage. Use her ugliness to increase your stamina, then when your ready to come, focus on her good features, her beautiful rack.

Its just like when your doing a fat chick, you keep the lights off, have her keep her shirt on and enjoy the ride.
 

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JackBauer24 said:
will my boob obsession decrease after seeing and feeling a few pairs?

uhhh...nope. Don't worry dude, there are tons of people out there with bigger boob obsessions than you, me being one of them.
 

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a HB9 with small boobs is not a HB9, small boobs is the equivalent of of a short guy, a lot issues about it, its all about the t it to a$$ ratio, huge t its and a flat a$$ is lame, huge a$$ and small t its are lame, and a face of pudding is never acceptable. I saw a blonde yesterday with a beautiful face, b cup and a wide a$$, "pass" was the first thing in my mind. big t its are a must. bigg breaasted women are better women, they make better gfs than a flatty, huge breast= more confidence, more securities than insecure, better mothers, more sucessful, more faithful, big boobs are a must, that's why women spend millions on boobs.
 

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Maxtro said:
The problem is that if a woman is at least a C, has a rocking body, pretty and great hair, I will fall for her so fast.
no sh!t huh? weird... :D


and Skirtchaser... How exactly do bigger boobs make a girl more faithful? lol... are they too weighted down to leave the house or something?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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