"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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sandinista

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hhhmm..

I've noticed that sometimes (especially when it's quite humid) that the veins on my hands become VERY noticible. They really 'fill up' & protrude wildly in a thick coat of blue. It's not attractive.
At times my hands seem like they're 90% blue 10% white.

is there a way to combat this at all?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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redCobra1

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be happy with what you have....I have the same thing... dont let something like a physical feature get in the way of a suave personality...if they like you, they like you,.... they dont...well NEXT em. Dont be concerned about something you cant do anything about. Get over it and if you show enough confidence and that you have a great personality (which im sure you do) they wont care what your hands look like
 
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You have high vascularity. That means, when you're standing outside on a cold day naked with a bunch of people, you will give off more body heat than regular folk. ...

Plus the big veins look sexy on your muscles. More than a few women have grabbed my bicep with its freakish vein (I'm not toting the big guns by any stretch, so it's out of place) and called it a "penis vein" or otherwise soaked their panties. Be proud of who you are!
 
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Yes, I know what the problem is with your hands. It is curable but takes some effort.

What you need to do is get the excess time off them, this will cure the problem:rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They're your veins for christ sakes!!! Of course you are going to notice them if you are working out :rolleyes:.
 
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