Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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big blue veins

sandinista

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hhhmm..

I've noticed that sometimes (especially when it's quite humid) that the veins on my hands become VERY noticible. They really 'fill up' & protrude wildly in a thick coat of blue. It's not attractive.
At times my hands seem like they're 90% blue 10% white.

is there a way to combat this at all?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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redCobra1

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be happy with what you have....I have the same thing... dont let something like a physical feature get in the way of a suave personality...if they like you, they like you,.... they dont...well NEXT em. Dont be concerned about something you cant do anything about. Get over it and if you show enough confidence and that you have a great personality (which im sure you do) they wont care what your hands look like
 

doctoroxygen

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You have high vascularity. That means, when you're standing outside on a cold day naked with a bunch of people, you will give off more body heat than regular folk. ...

Plus the big veins look sexy on your muscles. More than a few women have grabbed my bicep with its freakish vein (I'm not toting the big guns by any stretch, so it's out of place) and called it a "penis vein" or otherwise soaked their panties. Be proud of who you are!
 

Alpine

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Yes, I know what the problem is with your hands. It is curable but takes some effort.

What you need to do is get the excess time off them, this will cure the problem:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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white cloud 8

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They're your veins for christ sakes!!! Of course you are going to notice them if you are working out :rolleyes:.
 
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