"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have 16 years old and never had a girlfriend.
I never had a girlfriend but i always had a lot of friends(girls), they trust me and tell me her secrets, etc ...
There are a girl that i love, but she loves my best friend(but he don't know) and she knows that i love she, because i said that to her.
When i said that love her, she said me that doesn't love me, but like me.
Some weeks ago I was all days with her and we talk about ours lives... but in last weeks, I wasn't with her because i know that she loves my b-friend and she stopped to talk with me.. so i done the same thing and now she ignore me.

I would like if there are something that i can do ...:cuss:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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there's no quick tricks.

just drop it, stop chasing her atleast in that way.
if you are already friends you ain't going anywhere further than that.
 

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If there was a quick trick would there be anyone on this site or any problems?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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just like sandman said, they're aren't any quick tricks or pickup lines that will actually work. your problem is that you don't get it. You don't really understand what girls feel attraction for. Just stop chasing her and become a man dude, start reading some of the dj bible but don' focus to much on it, and the bristol lair or david deangelo stuff would also be great, that's what got me started. Oh and stop being SUCH A NICE GUY it only makes you a seem like loser to girls, sure they're gona have feelings for you but that feeling would be AFFECTION not ATTRACTION which is what you're suppose to be looking for
 

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Okay buddy, your doing it all wrong.

You can't tell her you love her. You've already fvcked up.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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SomeOne1 said:
I think that i need quick tricks =/
You can't rush success.

If you want to get all the girls you dream about, you'll do things the hard way, the man way, and you'll learn to think with your guts and balls instead of just your brains.
Luck is non-existant in this game. Meaning don't expect girls to come rushing to you in the next few weeks.

You're here to learn these arts:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
 
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