"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SomeOne1

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I have 16 years old and never had a girlfriend.
I never had a girlfriend but i always had a lot of friends(girls), they trust me and tell me her secrets, etc ...
There are a girl that i love, but she loves my best friend(but he don't know) and she knows that i love she, because i said that to her.
When i said that love her, she said me that doesn't love me, but like me.
Some weeks ago I was all days with her and we talk about ours lives... but in last weeks, I wasn't with her because i know that she loves my b-friend and she stopped to talk with me.. so i done the same thing and now she ignore me.

I would like if there are something that i can do ...:cuss:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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there's no quick tricks.

just drop it, stop chasing her atleast in that way.
if you are already friends you ain't going anywhere further than that.
 

sandman6991

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If there was a quick trick would there be anyone on this site or any problems?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jerry

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just like sandman said, they're aren't any quick tricks or pickup lines that will actually work. your problem is that you don't get it. You don't really understand what girls feel attraction for. Just stop chasing her and become a man dude, start reading some of the dj bible but don' focus to much on it, and the bristol lair or david deangelo stuff would also be great, that's what got me started. Oh and stop being SUCH A NICE GUY it only makes you a seem like loser to girls, sure they're gona have feelings for you but that feeling would be AFFECTION not ATTRACTION which is what you're suppose to be looking for
 

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Okay buddy, your doing it all wrong.

You can't tell her you love her. You've already fvcked up.
 

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SomeOne1 said:
I think that i need quick tricks =/
You can't rush success.

If you want to get all the girls you dream about, you'll do things the hard way, the man way, and you'll learn to think with your guts and balls instead of just your brains.
Luck is non-existant in this game. Meaning don't expect girls to come rushing to you in the next few weeks.

You're here to learn these arts:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
 
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