"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have 16 years old and never had a girlfriend.
I never had a girlfriend but i always had a lot of friends(girls), they trust me and tell me her secrets, etc ...
There are a girl that i love, but she loves my best friend(but he don't know) and she knows that i love she, because i said that to her.
When i said that love her, she said me that doesn't love me, but like me.
Some weeks ago I was all days with her and we talk about ours lives... but in last weeks, I wasn't with her because i know that she loves my b-friend and she stopped to talk with me.. so i done the same thing and now she ignore me.

I would like if there are something that i can do ...:cuss:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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there's no quick tricks.

just drop it, stop chasing her atleast in that way.
if you are already friends you ain't going anywhere further than that.
 
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If there was a quick trick would there be anyone on this site or any problems?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just like sandman said, they're aren't any quick tricks or pickup lines that will actually work. your problem is that you don't get it. You don't really understand what girls feel attraction for. Just stop chasing her and become a man dude, start reading some of the dj bible but don' focus to much on it, and the bristol lair or david deangelo stuff would also be great, that's what got me started. Oh and stop being SUCH A NICE GUY it only makes you a seem like loser to girls, sure they're gona have feelings for you but that feeling would be AFFECTION not ATTRACTION which is what you're suppose to be looking for
 
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Okay buddy, your doing it all wrong.

You can't tell her you love her. You've already fvcked up.
 
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SomeOne1 said:
I think that i need quick tricks =/
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You can't rush success.

If you want to get all the girls you dream about, you'll do things the hard way, the man way, and you'll learn to think with your guts and balls instead of just your brains.
Luck is non-existant in this game. Meaning don't expect girls to come rushing to you in the next few weeks.

You're here to learn these arts:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
 
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