Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bi-sexual women hooking up with each other and "GAME"

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I was watching a little bit of that reality show on MTV called "A Shot at Love"(which by the way is, as I'm sure you could guess, so matrix/AFC infested) or something like that, where 16 straight guys and 16 lesbian women are competing for a bi-sexual female, and the female has to choose whether she'd rather be with a man or a woman.

Anyway, it got me thinking about something that I never paid attention to. It's apparent when women hook up with other women, neither woman has to have "good game". But when it comes to men, women require that we have good game, or else no p*ssy. A little lost on this one. Any thoughts as to why women work this way with other women, but with us they're completely different? I mean it make's sense to say the things that attract a woman to a man sexually should also apply to a woman who's attracted to another woman, but apparently it's not like that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think the answer lies in that fact that women don't need game to attract a man. Therefore, by de riquer (however you spell that) women are higher value than men, so women don't need game relative to men to attract another woman.
 

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edger said:
It's apparent when women hook up with other women, neither woman has to have "good game".
How did you work this out? From a "reality" show on your television? :eek:

Poonani Maker: get to know some lesbians, some bi women, or even just some women. you have no idea what you're talking about.
 

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mintxx said:
How did you work this out? From a "reality" show on your television? :eek:
Yo, you don't watch them?..that's one of my main reliable source's.




mintxx said:
How did you work this out? From a "reality" show on your television? :eek:
Try observation.
 
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MTV = The Hor 'Homo Matrix!! Get to a hardline and get out now!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women want what women want. BI, straight or gay.

That's how it is.

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aliasguy said:
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Women want what women want. BI, straight or gay.

That's how it is.

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Replace the word "women" with "Hors" and your statement will be correct -- otherwise it does not compute!!!
 

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Mintx, let me clarify myself better..reason I made this post was because when I seen the show, I thought to myself how women don't need game to hook up with other women based on what I've observed in life. It had nothing to do with what the show portrayed.

And to all who have responded so far, not one of you have yet addressed the question.
 

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edger said:
And to all who have responded so far, not one of you have yet addressed the question.
I addressed your question and gave my answer. What are you talking about?
 
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ketostix said:
I think the answer lies in that fact that women don't need game to attract a man. Therefore, by de riquer (however you spell that) women are higher value than men, so women don't need game relative to men to attract another woman.
This is a Matrix answer and thus invalid!! You are taking the unreal for real and thus are thwarted away from reality!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is a Matrix answer and thus invalid!! You are taking the unreal for real and thus are thwarted away from reality!!
LoL No I'm taking reality for real. The matrix says women are the poor and disadvantaged ones oppressed by men.
 

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Man I caught a bit of that show last night.

All I could think about is how it portrays us guys as competing, fighting, and BEGGING (against men and women) for the attention of ONE woman.

The Pus sification of America continues!

But that is good news for us! Women see shows like this and think that's how all guys are (most guys are like that but that's beside the point). So when a woman goes into the real world and expects men to be supplicating and ass kissing, she'll be blown away when she comes across us DJ's. :rockon:
 

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Women are curious about their power and sexuality. Since childhood women have been oobserving themselves and developing skills of interaction and seduction, flirting etc. In their teens, their sexual side really comes out and they spend most of their life exploring their sexuality, and interactions with the opposite sex. According to surveys, many women do NOT orgasm regularly. Many women do not orgasm during intercourse. And many women do not really know what sexual pleasure they are capable of.
They often feel they can explore these areas better with women. There's a nonverbal communication between the bi curious females and they figure a woman is going to better understand their needs better than a man. Truth be told, a lot of men have zero knowledge about women, and some women are tired of being frustrated by men.
Because women worship beauty, and because they are sexual and sensual creature that revel in physical pleasure, they tend to find other women attractive (they always "size up" other women. And sometimes they are curious to see what a Woman's touch feels like. They are natural observers, and they tend to focus on physical beauty and flaws.) , and if they are adventurous enough they want to explore their femenine sexuality ,and their bodies. and the "feel" of a woman.
 

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first of all reality tv is not even close to reality. the people are anything but normal and most of it is scripted anyway.

secondly, MOST women exhibit lesbian behaviors only around men and its all a show to turn the men on and get ATTENTION. for all the chics you see grinding up on each other in the bar, very few of them actually go home and eat each other's snatches out.

thirdly, of the women who actually are bisexual or lesbo, very few of them are these super hot model types. most lesbian chics that i've come across are pretty butch and ugly.

as for lesbos using or not using 'game' on each other. i think its probably the same as gay men. i think when its same sex the games aren't as prevelant because there isn't a MOUNTAIN of social bullsh*t conditioning going on.

in hetero society there is clearly a men VS. women mentality. women call men dogs, men call women sl*ts, etc.

in the gay community no one is being pitted against each other. plus i think if 2 people are interested in each other, they both show it. instead of with men and women with all these sh*t tests and stuff.

but all that said, im sure gays and lesbos have their dating issues as well.
 

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thirdly, of the women who actually are bisexual or lesbo, very few of them are these super hot model types. most lesbian chics that i've come across are pretty butch and ugly.


I agree, but fwiw the hot bi model-looking chicks do exist. I am dating one right now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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edger said:
I was watching a little bit of that reality show on MTV called "A Shot at Love"(which by the way is, as I'm sure you could guess, so matrix/AFC infested) or something like that, where 16 straight guys and 16 lesbian women are competing for a bi-sexual female, and the female has to choose whether she'd rather be with a man or a woman.

Anyway, it got me thinking about something that I never paid attention to. It's apparent when women hook up with other women, neither woman has to have "good game". But when it comes to men, women require that we have good game, or else no p*ssy. A little lost on this one. Any thoughts as to why women work this way with other women, but with us they're completely different? I mean it make's sense to say the things that attract a woman to a man sexually should also apply to a woman who's attracted to another woman, but apparently it's not like that.
Women need "game" just like men. Women don't need to WORK HARD at "game", though, because a woman's entire life has been spent engineering "game", from the time they picked up their first Seventeen magazine. It's second-nature to them. Whereas men, who have been doing FUN and/or USEFUL stuff all their young years, have a harder time picking up "game".

All the time you were playing with GI Joes or Transformers, girls were learning how to look pretty and how to raise a family. When you were reading magazines about cars or playing sports, women were reading magazines about how to drive men crazy.

Websites like this are the male equivalent of Cosmo. (which probably explains why they've become drek in the last couple years) Most men struggle so much because they haven't even begun to learn how to use their charm. For all you Matrix nerds, "your eyes hurt because you haven't used them".

It doesn't help that boys these days are encouraged to sit in front of video game consoles rather than learn things like how to socialize and how to handle competition and/or tests in real life. That's also why all the girls you know who play video games or dungeons-n-dragons with the guys are relatively unattractive...they never learned the female end of "game".

But don't wish the game was easier...become a better player. Otherwise you end up sitting around on forums whining about the "Hor Matrix". :p
 

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squirrels said:
Women need "game" just like men. Women don't need to WORK HARD at "game", though, because a woman's entire life has been spent engineering "game", from the time they picked up their first Seventeen magazine. It's second-nature to them. Whereas men, who have been doing FUN and/or USEFUL stuff all their young years, have a harder time picking up "game".

i dont know about this. i think if men never asked out women and women were the ones who had to do all the asking out then women would have to have a LOT more game than they do right now.

women are good at 'game' because they don't have to DO anything. they just giggle and smile and tell guys they like 'wow, you are so smart' and play to their ego. and then they just sit back and wait for this guy or that guy to ask them out.

but if they were the ones having to ask out the men, their game would SUCK.

a woman does NOT know how to handle a man who is not interested in her. women ONLY know how to handle men who want to taste their p*ssy.

which is why nexting is so powerful. a woman doesn't know how to handle a man who isn't desperate for the p*ssy. her whole 'game' is based on p*ssy power.
 

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Hahahhaha @ "whole game"!

I think what squirrels is getting at is women are much more social than us because during recess when boys were off playing, girls were standing around gossiping. But good point Joe, that's not the same thing as having game.
 

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LoL No I'm taking reality for real. The matrix says women are the poor and disadvantaged ones oppressed by men.
LMS - can you address if Ketostix comment is correct (according the the hor matrix)
 

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first of all reality tv is not even close to reality. the people are anything but normal and most of it is scripted anyway.
I know that, I never said it was..I've already said I wasn't basing my post from reality TV, but from my own personal observation in life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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