"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bi or lez girls leading you on?

Hogwild

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrgoodstuff

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
 

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You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
I see exactly what you are saying, very interesting. Thanks for the thoughts !
 

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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hogwild

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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
Agreed. Thank you
 
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