"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bi or lez girls leading you on?

Hogwild

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
 

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You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
I see exactly what you are saying, very interesting. Thanks for the thoughts !
 

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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hogwild

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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
Agreed. Thank you
 
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