"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bi or lez girls leading you on?

Hogwild

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
 

Hogwild

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You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
I see exactly what you are saying, very interesting. Thanks for the thoughts !
 

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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hogwild

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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
Agreed. Thank you
 
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