"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bi or lez girls leading you on?

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Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hogwild said:
Quick question for all, have any of you guys been lead on so to say by a closet lez girl or bi girl perhaps? Wondering if this is common? I started to get some gut feeling that a girl I been talking to may be bi or lez. If she is bi that's cool I guess? But idk if this is like a lez girl just looking for ego strokes and saying look I'm with a guy because she may be closeted and not know what to do. Has anyone had a similar experience or thoughts? Who knows she may just be boyish and straight. I mean it's only a matter a time before I figure I just ask but just wanted to see what some fellas here think.
Thanks
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You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
You think bi or lez is "cool" well keep in mind that each of these choices indicate they can have 50% more choices of humans that they are attracted to or will be stealing attention from you. I know you think it means you will have these cool MFF threesomes but it doesn't usually work out that way! What it means is you will be a "prop" to her GAY lifestyle, so yes you will get some benefits, but her emotional connection will be to females. So you will be missing some stuff... It's up to you. Some of them will let you bone other females. So if you are already a plate spinner that would be perfect. But not all of them are like this.
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I see exactly what you are saying, very interesting. Thanks for the thoughts !
 
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I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KingBeef said:
I have once and it was strictly a one month fling. Never saw them again (they actually moved to Cali)

I have to agree with mrgoodstuff, you will just be a prop in her lifestyle. IMO, for me to consider messing with a girl like this...

1. She would have to be undeniably hot
(it wouldn't be worth it if she wasn't)

2. Manageable Drama (most of these girls
are going to bring a soap opera with them.
Will you be able to either deal with it or
be able to brush it off your shoulders
and pay no mind...)

3. This girl is STRICTLY A PLATE. She
should be nothing more than just
a recreational "piece of arse."
PERIOD.

You should be the "man with options" which
means you should have stallions in your stable for whatever suits your needs.
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Agreed. Thank you
 
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