"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BF Destroying (Article by TylerDurden)

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MightyMate said:
For example? It works for all sitations..
Well the bf of the girl doesn't have neediness, failure to commit or being too distant, abusive behaviour (be it physical or mental), psychological withdrawal, being irresponsible, they're not even having sex so not being assertive in bed is out of the question
but he might be a little jealous of me and I can see him being somewhat perdictable which probably is going to end up making the relationship boring...but even with the jealousy and perdictability I dont see her leaving her bf....
If anything the guy went to her aid when she was in a lonely desperate time and the example makes it look like the bf needed her when actually it is the other way around (in this situation). The girl is the one that is very needy and desperate. He was pretty much her only option and was the first and only guy to come to her when she was lonely.
Then I came into the picture and I was the one that asked if she had a bf, which she said she did....
 

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this is pathetic! If i seen a guy trying to steal my girl like this i would put him in an ankle lock ken shamrock style!

Seriously though, it actually angers me that people would go to such lengths to steal a gf away! Get you own girl punks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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