"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BF Destroying (Article by TylerDurden)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ1234

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MightyMate said:
For example? It works for all sitations..
Well the bf of the girl doesn't have neediness, failure to commit or being too distant, abusive behaviour (be it physical or mental), psychological withdrawal, being irresponsible, they're not even having sex so not being assertive in bed is out of the question
but he might be a little jealous of me and I can see him being somewhat perdictable which probably is going to end up making the relationship boring...but even with the jealousy and perdictability I dont see her leaving her bf....
If anything the guy went to her aid when she was in a lonely desperate time and the example makes it look like the bf needed her when actually it is the other way around (in this situation). The girl is the one that is very needy and desperate. He was pretty much her only option and was the first and only guy to come to her when she was lonely.
Then I came into the picture and I was the one that asked if she had a bf, which she said she did....
 

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this is pathetic! If i seen a guy trying to steal my girl like this i would put him in an ankle lock ken shamrock style!

Seriously though, it actually angers me that people would go to such lengths to steal a gf away! Get you own girl punks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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