"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bf calls me up?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I like the girl, but at the same time she's not quite in my age bracket to date. Anyway, her boyfriend says he's heard a lot about me, and i've never heard of the guy till recently. Anyway, the point is she talks about me quite a bit from what I heard.
She then tells me they are together, and good luck. First off I never mentioned dating her NOW. Then he sends me a txt from her phone last week saying I lost, and I was thinking... I lost at what? I wasnt even trying to steal your woman. I was trying to get to know her.
Anyway we went to a party, she brings him, and I buy his drink for the night after I introduced myself to him. It was $3 for a bottomless cup. She's like... We brought money. I said dont worry about it, its on me. Enjoy your night.
He was a little confused to say the least. Thing was he got pissy with me the night before on the phone for a bit, but he really didnt know why.
So for him he pretty much got owned by me that night, and then I did my business with other girls to say look, i'm not obsessed over your women, and I dont care about you. I said she was pretty, and no more. Plus the guy is a total chump, so it was easy being the better guy.
Could be what he was trying to do. Hey... Hows it going, just wanted to see what's up. Your reaction was...
Just like the boyfriend at the party. He expected me to get all up in his face probably, tell him he needs to settle down, but dude was shocked cause I didnt. Asked him about school, what his degree was, and plans, and then enjoyed the rest of my night. Think I gave his gf a high five and said... Hey, the nights young, dont look all depressed, and then said nothing to her the rest of the night. She thought I would be macking on her all night while he was around or really trying to pick-apart her boyfriend. Instead I talked to all the other girls. Showed I didnt give a rats ass.
So in your case, he was nice to you, and I was nice to him. The boyfriend in my case would never figure out to be the better guy or reverse it.
I dont know, some guys tell you NOT to go for another womans boyfriend. I Dont, but I had started before I knew she had one. I had about a month of getting to know her before I SAW the boyfriend. She never mentioned him till I asked.
Sometimes you just have to read people. I think if you love your man you should be talking about him to others. Just my thought.
Anyway, i've backed off of her, but now I think she is a little upset, but that's good because if she really is interested, she'll make it known more. I planted the seed, and I moved on.
Good luck!
DJ1234
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um....no, negative lol....I think I could kick his @$$, im not worried about that, he's not even really the fighting type...SharinganUser said: