"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Beyond Sex...

oceanlover1970

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What do men want from women, beyond sex? It seems like most of these discussions are about how to get laid and how to not get played. What about after the chase, when it's down to the realities of being in a relationship with another human being? Beyond sex, what do y'all really want from us?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlwaysExcel

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I really like female affection. I like when a woman squeezes me tight as I wrap my arms around her in a strong embrace. Sexual? Yes, because a hug from my mom or a female friend is not the same. But I like that unique affection even if it doesn't immediately lead to sex.

The more general answer is that we want you to enhance our lives (NOT complete us).
 

RedZone122

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I'd agree, its more about self improvement in this particular area
 

Sexual

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You can't get a straight answer from that. It's a human condition to always want what you can't have. Some men will want nothing to do with you, some will, that's life.
 
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