"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Beware of Tinder scam

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I matched some HB7 on Tinder and noticed her bio said Venmo her $5 for a surprise. I of course did not because anything she could possibly offer over the internet can be attained for free. I basically messed with her and asked her what happens when she sends me $5. Told her I don't understand. Etc.

It got me thinking though. How many idiots fall for this? Obviously she just unmatches you after you send the money. I googled it and found an article about a woman who started this scam. Apparently 20% of guys were falling for it. Jesus Christ! A fool and his money are soon parted.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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redskinsfan92 said:
Apparently 20% of guys were falling for it.
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Apparently only men are dumb enough to pay for anything sexual, it's a huge industry too. If men weren't so weak to our primitive desires we would have the upper hand in the sexual market. The opposite is true today, so you'll see sh!t like this, women placing negative value on men.

The statement these women are making is that they won't give anything for a man, they won't take a man without giving anything, they only take a man if they give her something. So men are below worthless, they want monetary compensation for bothering to entertain a man.

Women like that are disgusting, apparently 20% of men gladly pays for the extremely limited time and stimulation provided by disgusting women. Makes no sense, but the demand (from men) side of this issue bothers me more than the supply (from women) side.

Btw, report that profile, it's against the rules.
 
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Tinder just banned me. No reason given.
 
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redskinsfan92 said:
I matched some HB7 on Tinder and noticed her bio said Venmo her $5 for a surprise. I of course did not because anything she could possibly offer over the internet can be attained for free. I basically messed with her and asked her what happens when she sends me $5. Told her I don't understand. Etc.

It got me thinking though. How many idiots fall for this? Obviously she just unmatches you after you send the money. I googled it and found an article about a woman who started this scam. Apparently 20% of guys were falling for it. Jesus Christ! A fool and his money are soon parted.
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I was on tinder for one week. Then I cancelled. Don’t do it. Get to know women the normal way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fzatf said:
The very same girl could have ironically reported you for asking for money and got you banned.
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God, I hope you're right. I'd be laughing so hard if it's true.
 
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What's her Tinder handle? I'll make a catfish profile to mack her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was unbanned today after reaching out with a well worded email. Apparently they thought I shared venmo financial information.
 
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