Beware 6 Month Anniversaries?

[bigneil]

Has anyone else noticed how relationships very often end after precisely 6 months (or 1.5 years, or 2.5 years, etc)?

My last 3 loves ended on such boundaries, and yesterday was the 6 month anniversary with my current girlfriend and I found myself wanting to end it. I kept typing messages that would have ended it, but not pressing send. There is this bad energy. It's all because of my reading into things, and I'm trying to resist sending the "What is wrong?" text. Truth be told, I saw her twice this week, everything was fine, she kissed me goodbye, and we just had our best month. But for some reason I just want to run away.

Is this just a coincidence with these dates? Or is the fact we are on the far side of the Solar System from where we met on the 6 month anniversary a factor? It is 186 Million miles, after all.

 

[lizardking82]

Sounds like you subconsciously do not believe this relationship should be going well and you are trynna self sabotage it. Underlying reasons may vary

 

[bigneil]

Sounds like you subconsciously do not believe this relationship should be going well and you are trynna self sabotage it. Underlying reasons may vary

This pattern is very dangerous - I could simply be projecting other bad relationships onto this one (pattern of failure on this date). I got away with this in January when I ended it and she called my bluff, and I realized it's a display of weakness to say anything but "you want me". So I will simply become idle for now. Then again, she got her period today.

3 months for me but yes 6 month mark is significant, basically last chance to bail relatively unscathed

3 months is another date to beware. There is this energy reversal. 3 months ago today was a terrible day for our relationship, but 6 months ago was total bliss. I realized it's because on a circle 3 months makes a 90 degree angle so there is a major perpendicular shift, like the sun setting. Meanwhile, the 6 month anniversary is as far away from the meeting place as possible (the Earth being on the far side of the sun). I've conjectured that our half birthday is our weakest day of the year for the reason, could it be that the 6 month anniversary is the weakest day for a relationship?

 

[logicallefty]

I've notice patterns with 3 x months, 6 x months, 2 x years, 4 x years, 7 x years. both with myself and people I know.

 

[Von]

I've notice patterns with 3 x months, 6 x months, 2 x years, 4 x years, 7 x years. both with myself and people I know.

Your lock at 7 (for life)

 

[Skyline]

This pattern is very dangerous - I could simply be projecting other bad relationships onto this one (pattern of failure on this date). I got away with this in January when I ended it and she called my bluff, and I realized it's a display of weakness to say anything but "you want me". So I will simply become idle for now. Then again, she got her period today.


3 months is another date to beware. There is this energy reversal. 3 months ago today was a terrible day for our relationship, but 6 months ago was total bliss. I realized it's because on a circle 3 months makes a 90 degree angle so there is a major perpendicular shift, like the sun setting. Meanwhile, the 6 month anniversary is as far away from the meeting place as possible (the Earth being on the far side of the sun). I've conjectured that our half birthday is our weakest day of the year for the reason, could it be that the 6 month anniversary is the weakest day for a relationship?

I forgot who but someone was saying that the earths seasons also dictated your relationships health. This is also what Astrology relationship matchmaking is based on.

It sounds ridiculous but people who have birthdays within 3 months of each other generally last a bit longer since they will always be near each other regardless of the earths position.

 

[bigneil]

I bit my tongue for 2 days and today she (as always) managed to say the perfect thing and everything is fine.

The moral: never suggest you think she might not like you. Feeling this way is natural and as men we want to act, but do nothing instead.

 

[wolf]

I ditched a girl on the 6 month mark because she was bad for me. Promised myself I would have my mind made up by 6 months. Maybe there is something in it..

 

[xstang77]

I remember some reputable guys on here mentioning relationship dynamics change every 3-6 months, it's stuck with me.