Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hello guys,

I was wondering if y'all ever improved your visions by not doing something at all or by doing this and that... If so, could you share some experiences?

I heard carrots are good for your eyes, and i've been eating them quite a while now but don't know what has improved my vision.

BTW, I don't use glasses.


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well you would have to eat a LOT of carrots to improve eyesight, but it is Vitamin A is important in maintenance of the cornea, helps proper perception of light at the retina and a vitamin A deficiency can cause lag in recovery time after a flash of light at night. So make sure you are getting the right amount of it. Other foods high in Beta Carotene and Vitamin A are whole eggs, whole milk and Liver. If you don't eat much of these foods, consider supplementation.


As for improving eyesight, it can be done. Check out this site which tells a little about the Bates method, which is probably the most common.

http://www.folksonline.com/folks/hh/lm/lm.htm
 

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I went to the eye Dr the other day and he said my eyes have actually gotten better. HE had no explanation, but said "it just happens sometimes".

I got to thinking. I never needed glasses until I worked on a PC all day. A year ago, I was laid off for 6 months and couldn't afford the internet, so no PC. I've had this job for a little over a year.

I think not being on a PC for those 6 months did it.
 

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Originally posted by Reto
I went to the eye Dr the other day and he said my eyes have actually gotten better. HE had no explanation, but said "it just happens sometimes".

I got to thinking. I never needed glasses until I worked on a PC all day. A year ago, I was laid off for 6 months and couldn't afford the internet, so no PC. I've had this job for a little over a year.

I think not being on a PC for those 6 months did it.
lol... Check out the first paragraph on that link above.

"The Computer Health Nut's Guide to Vision Improvement
by Lois June Wickstrom


Shortly after I got my first computer 15 years ago, I got my first pair of glasses. Computers are hard work for the eyes. A few years ago, I was holding menus and business cards at arm's length and considering getting either longer arms or bifocals.
Today, however, I wear no glasses. "

:rolleyes:
 

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I would have opted for the arms... I've always dug that monkey look!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I could use eye contacts. I don't really want glasses :(
 

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u can always get that lazer eye surgery, thats what i'm going to do tommoro. . . oh wait, I dont have $4,000 its fricin 2 grand per eye!!! it'll be a while before that happens :(
 

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don't they have insurance for it?
 

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insurence dosnt cover the eye surgery, appently its still 'experimental' which is total bs otherwise it wouldnt be done to the public, its just another way for insurance companies to save cash
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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