"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hello guys,

I was wondering if y'all ever improved your visions by not doing something at all or by doing this and that... If so, could you share some experiences?

I heard carrots are good for your eyes, and i've been eating them quite a while now but don't know what has improved my vision.

BTW, I don't use glasses.


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well you would have to eat a LOT of carrots to improve eyesight, but it is Vitamin A is important in maintenance of the cornea, helps proper perception of light at the retina and a vitamin A deficiency can cause lag in recovery time after a flash of light at night. So make sure you are getting the right amount of it. Other foods high in Beta Carotene and Vitamin A are whole eggs, whole milk and Liver. If you don't eat much of these foods, consider supplementation.


As for improving eyesight, it can be done. Check out this site which tells a little about the Bates method, which is probably the most common.

http://www.folksonline.com/folks/hh/lm/lm.htm
 

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I went to the eye Dr the other day and he said my eyes have actually gotten better. HE had no explanation, but said "it just happens sometimes".

I got to thinking. I never needed glasses until I worked on a PC all day. A year ago, I was laid off for 6 months and couldn't afford the internet, so no PC. I've had this job for a little over a year.

I think not being on a PC for those 6 months did it.
 

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Originally posted by Reto
I went to the eye Dr the other day and he said my eyes have actually gotten better. HE had no explanation, but said "it just happens sometimes".

I got to thinking. I never needed glasses until I worked on a PC all day. A year ago, I was laid off for 6 months and couldn't afford the internet, so no PC. I've had this job for a little over a year.

I think not being on a PC for those 6 months did it.
lol... Check out the first paragraph on that link above.

"The Computer Health Nut's Guide to Vision Improvement
by Lois June Wickstrom


Shortly after I got my first computer 15 years ago, I got my first pair of glasses. Computers are hard work for the eyes. A few years ago, I was holding menus and business cards at arm's length and considering getting either longer arms or bifocals.
Today, however, I wear no glasses. "

:rolleyes:
 

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I would have opted for the arms... I've always dug that monkey look!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I could use eye contacts. I don't really want glasses :(
 

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u can always get that lazer eye surgery, thats what i'm going to do tommoro. . . oh wait, I dont have $4,000 its fricin 2 grand per eye!!! it'll be a while before that happens :(
 

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don't they have insurance for it?
 

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insurence dosnt cover the eye surgery, appently its still 'experimental' which is total bs otherwise it wouldnt be done to the public, its just another way for insurance companies to save cash
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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