“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Better transition to hanging out or is this the weird type

GeeMale

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I told a chick at work to hang out. 3 weeks later I texted her after finding her number on paper car.

Me: Hey (her name) how's it going
Her: who's this?
Me: It's (my name)
Her: omg hey
Her: how are you???
Her: I didn't think you were ever gonna text me
Me: I'm doing great you? I just found your # in my car thought I lost it I'd definitely text you some point in my life
Her: awe glad you found it
Her: how have you been?

Next day

Me: hey what are you doing for fun tonight? I know this great place that I think you'd love!

Her: (Nothing for 2 days)

Me: deletes text thread come on sosuave wondering why women can be weird and not appreciate the few guys who ask them out naturally at work, non OLD, etc
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you want a better transition you should start by actually having a transition, not leave the conversation hanging for a day before asking her out. That's weird behavior.

You should just have answered the question and wrapped up the conversation by asking her out like a normal person.

Don't be surprised if she takes a page out of your book and replies in another couple of days, lol.
 

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I don't get it. What is a paper car? You told a chick to hang out? Did she say she's doing nothing for two days, or didn't respond for two days? Did you tell her you would definitely text her some point in your life?
 
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