Better than everyone else.

[zinc4]

wth are the winner at? first prize for talking about yourself??? holy crap you are getting annoying...what have you ever accomplished or done in your life with no help from your family's money?

 

[sageproduct]

Can we shut the fwck up about this already? I'm sick of seeing the stupid title to this thread every time I log in. It's been almost a month now. Why does this have to be in the Don Juan Discussion section anyway.

EDIT: Glanced over the OP...this thread is going nowhere, no one is going to change anyone else, OP will never learn anything until he flies so high he crashes or gets struck by lightning. IME everyone is arrogant on the inside, people who are really ****y usually admit that they're ****y, that's cool..but someone like the OP who feels the need to yell it out on the loudspeaker every time and say "YEAH I'M ****Y GOT A PROBLEM WITH THAT" is much more likely someone who has an inferiority complex. This thread reeks of attention-seeking, which is essentially what trolling boils down to.

Stay red, Ronaldo. I have empathy for the trollmind

 

[Ronaldo7]

Can we shut the fwck up about this already? I'm sick of seeing the stupid title to this thread every time I log in. It's been almost a month now. Why does this have to be in the Don Juan Discussion section anyway.

EDIT: Glanced over the OP...this thread is going nowhere, no one is going to change anyone else, OP will never learn anything until he flies so high he crashes or gets struck by lightning. IME everyone is arrogant on the inside, people who are really ****y usually admit that they're ****y, that's cool..but someone like the OP who feels the need to yell it out on the loudspeaker every time and say "YEAH I'M ****Y GOT A PROBLEM WITH THAT" is much more likely someone who has an inferiority complex. This thread reeks of attention-seeking, which is essentially what trolling boils down to.

Stay red, Ronaldo. I have empathy for the trollmind

Others always revive this thread and have inquiries about me. I simply oblige to their questions.

We are all different. It would be extremely tedious and boring if we were all the same. You may be nice and help others, while i wouldn't. You may love Football, while i don't. We have different personalities and therefore we think differently. Your personality may predispose you to reject my personality because you see it as an antagonist to yours. Unless you have my same mindset, you can't possibly say what is or what isn't. Your definition of a hot girl may be different to mine because we think differently. You may settle for whatever if you don't find what you like, while i would never stoop to that. Only idiots make assumptions. "I'm better than everyone else, got a problem with that?" is what i would yell out

@zinc: I was just putting an example to him. If you don't understand it, don't be shy to ask for me to explain it to you. Don't hate things you can't understand.

 

[djgirl]

Hey ronaldo i am just wondering how do you blow off girls your not interested in? and how do you make them like you if they feel like they are too good for you?

im just genuinely curious x

 

[backbreaker]

since we are talking about overrated character traits I'll give you another one, and that's tolerance. **** tolerance. unless it's my son and even he has limits before he is in time out. tolerance gives you nothing but gray hair and trouble. marks look for people who are tolerant of other people beucase they know they can get over on them. women bank on you being tolerant of their ****ty behavior.

i refuse to tolerate ****ty behavior today.

 

[Darth]

@Darth: Not at all. I believe in God.

Okay- given this information, do you not find it contradictory that you thrive off of hate and love to see hate in people's eyes?

See you can intellectually believe something, but it's the heart that counts. The heart has to be in the right place or it doesn't matter.

It's Sunday today- maybe it would be good to pray about this and try to become more loving.

You are on a forum dedicated to how to love women (or at least pretending to love them in some messed-up cases) and you are saying you are full of hate. Don't you think other people might pick up on that before long?

I know I said I wouldn't keep posting here but come on, dude. We want to help.

Also, if you can give us a detailed account of your childhood and the reason that you are so full of hate, that would be extremely helpful. I notice your signature says, "I went through hell". What is it that you went through?

 

[Ronaldo7]

Hey ronaldo i am just wondering how do you blow off girls your not interested in? and how do you make them like you if they feel like they are too good for you?

im just genuinely curious x

I believe in efficiency above all, especially regarding time. If a girl shows interest and it is that obvious that she would never get with me, i simply say not interested when she initially approaches. Girls naturally look at me. They like what they see and they feel they can go after it. I also feel it is extremely, extremely easy for me to manipulate them with 2-3 words and seal it. Then again i have it all and it is very difficult to compete against.

@Darth: Love is simply how you interpret it. I only care and hold feelings for my family. That is the only thing that counts. Please learn reading comprehension skills. I didn't say i was full of hate. I said i thrive OFF OF it. As long as i get what i want, i don't care what people think or pick up on. This forum has helped me develop another skill that can i add to my unlimited repertoire.

My childhood was the greatest any child could want. I had everything i asked for. "I went through hell, i'm expecting heaven" is a quote from a Kanye West & Jay-Z song called Who Gon' Stop Me. It can interpreted that with great sacrifice and pain comes great reward.

 

[Darth]

I am really not trolling. It may seem like it, but i really do want help, even if it may not seem like it.

Hmmm....

My childhood was the greatest any child could want. I had everything i asked for.

But were you loved?

 

[Ronaldo7]

Lol i wanted help in approaching women. I got the help and that's it.

 

[Dali_tx_o]

I have just read this thread in full, and this contains some amazing material; Not in a sense of a set of instructions of how something is and what to do, but a first-hand experience of an actual process that allows to make own conclusions to all of us;

Gentlemen of sosuave who flamed the OP - is that really how one who is trying to become confident and a DonJuan should hold himself? Surely, all of us are learning, yet look at the posts by Gunner and Atom Smasher, and look at your posts. Asking to know how the guy looks, so you could try and make fun out of him if there's some sort of flaw? Come on, think about it, put your own ego's aside! True DonJuan does not need approval, and does not need to prove anything! Sure, Ronaldo7 has so many qualities in his personality I find appaling, and I would probably never want to associate myself with him in a daily life; However, we all get these people in daily lives where we have to deal with them, and is it not fascinating to you to have an opportunity and ask them what makes them such? Why resort to personal attacks, when instead you can find out more about the person, why he thinks he is better and so, and use that as a tool to help yourself grow? You have someone from upper-middle class who is arrogant and excels at pursuit of his goals, who potentially has knowledge of a higher social circle... You can find out so much, learn so much, discover so much, bet it how to deal with someone who is arrogant prick, to find out how would one have to be like to fit in into some social strata, or why you should not try to fit in in that strata at all! And what you do is try to belittle and bring the person down, so you could say "Heh, at least I'm better than him at x", or somehow prove your superiority?

Learn from this! It is easy to say "ban this guy" "he is trolling" "you suck", since it makes oneself more comfortable knowing other's don't approve of him as well, and that your current thinking was "accepted". It is harder to bite it up, and consider that perhaps one himself is not as good as he thinks, to recognize your very own little Ronaldo7 inside of you! For what I've read in the DonJuan bible, it is stepping out of your comfort zone, it is putting your ego aside that makes one grow; One may say that his thread is bull****, and should be closed, since it does not contribute anything to the site for people who are looking for help. I think this is one of the greatest recent threads here, and it shows so much about people, gives you an amazing chance to learn how to maintain your cool and just laugh it off when someone looks you in the eye and says that he thinks he is "smarter" than you. Cause true DonJuan will not try to prove he is smarter, he will just smile back, casually mention "I guess you are" and move on. Because down inside, he knows the truth, and that is all that matters.

And OP, glad to hear that you've got the advice you came here for, and although unasked, I'd like to throw in my two cents on the flaming and hate and so on, since, after all, this is a semi-free market of ideas -

To you, success may be having eleventy billion dollars, to someone else it may be curing cancer without making any money from it, or maybe raising a family and two kids. However, when calling yourself better than *everyone* else, one should remember a couple of things:

You are rating yourself on your specific scale, i.e., your definition of success. Everyone sees success in their own way, and although yes, you may be a lot farther ahead than most of the people on your way to become a CEO, remember that not everyone wants that, and they may actually be a lot further on their own way than you; Rating the success of people based on your own criteria is somewhat shortsighted. The more specific the route, the easier it is to "feel" more successful than others, since you meet very few people on the same road as you.

Nevertheless, sooner or later, you will meet someone who followed a similar route, and was/still is/will be better than you, on your own scale. It will probably happen within next few years, since after one moves out of their place, and attends a university/college/other place that concentrates a large number of people with similar interests as yours, you inevitably find someone who has/is more; I really doubt that it is possible to actually be at the *top*, since there is nearly an inexhaustible supply of these different areas of concentration - say it's not university, well it might be a golf club, or other place where people with similar interests as yours gather around.

So what you said about yourself - It could be that you actually are better than everyone else, but only in your current area, social circle, monkey sphere or whatever you call it. You may be the best doctor in a small rural village, but that does not not necessarily mean you are the best doctor in New York; and again, being the best doctor in New York does not necessarily mean there isn't a doctor in some village who is better than you.

If you want to grow, find yourself a circle where you are not the best. It will be painful, it will shatter your ego, but you will have the potential to grow and actually become better than a lot more people again. Strive to be best, yet realize that there will still be someone better. You had the great opportunity to be born into a rich family that probably opened many doors for you. That's great, that's like starting a game at level 10 already, but you still got 10 more levels to beat, so don't let your ego make you stay in that same level forever, or that is all you will be;
The best out of underachievers is still an under-achiever.

 

[sageproduct]

French fries? Onion rings? Y nobody like my fried rice?!?!

 

[synergy1]

@Synergy1: I actually came here seeking help. I did get it in this thread with Gunner's helpful post. There is no such thing as overconfidence. There is only confidence and how you project it. Funny thing you mentioned though. When i initially hang out with people, they will immediately sit up and take notice of who i am. I have a very imposing and dominating aura. People always remember me and who i am. This is why i believe that first impressions are the key to everything.

I understand that it must be tough when everyone else is that much inferior to you both in intellect and in stature. What ends up happening is that all the little people will try and bring you down to their level, much of what is happening on this thread. its because everyone on SS is a little person who can't match up to you. Its odd that you had trouble with women, but as it turns out, all you needed was a little tip and now you don't need the lesser people anymore...might as well move on.

I am kind of short, balding, and not very smart. Women don't even pay attention to me, and my job as a bank teller doesn't really make for good conversation. Its easier for people like me to see the bad in people like you so I can reconcile the failure that my life is.

That said, I am thankful you could enlighten us to what its like to be good at life...something I can only dream of..

 

[djgirl]

Ronaldo you should make more threads. Im interested in learning your ways regardless of what people here think, i think you have a good mind set with women and life in general. im keen to learn more!

 

[betheman]

I believe in efficiency above all, especially regarding time. If a girl shows interest and it is that obvious that she would never get with me, i simply say not interested when she initially approaches. Girls naturally look at me. They like what they see and they feel they can go after it. I also feel it is extremely, extremely easy for me to manipulate them with 2-3 words and seal it. Then again i have it all and it is very difficult to compete against.

@Darth: Love is simply how you interpret it. I only care and hold feelings for my family. That is the only thing that counts. Please learn reading comprehension skills. I didn't say i was full of hate. I said i thrive OFF OF it. As long as i get what i want, i don't care what people think or pick up on. This forum has helped me develop another skill that can i add to my unlimited repertoire.

My childhood was the greatest any child could want. I had everything i asked for. "I went through hell, i'm expecting heaven" is a quote from a Kanye West & Jay-Z song called Who Gon' Stop Me. It can interpreted that with great sacrifice and pain comes great reward.

you come across as a bit of a psychopath

 

[Boilermaker]

He's a young clueless kid, leave him alone.

 

[YAboi]

yezzir!

 

[Trailboss]

Seriously....11 PAGES of this IDIOT's drivel? LOLz...........

 

[Darth]

He is not an idiot, he is a misunderstood genius and future leader of a world dynasty

 

[floydb25]

French fries? Onion rings? Y nobody like my fried rice?!?!

I thought they pronounce it "fry rice"? IE, "Yoo wan fry rice?" Chinese food is still awesome. The one here also has excellent shrimp and fries.

Onion rings are AMAZING at the restaurant - not that fast food nonsense.

 

[Ronaldo7]

I have just read this thread in full, and this contains some amazing material; Not in a sense of a set of instructions of how something is and what to do, but a first-hand experience of an actual process that allows to make own conclusions to all of us;

Gentlemen of sosuave who flamed the OP - is that really how one who is trying to become confident and a DonJuan should hold himself? Surely, all of us are learning, yet look at the posts by Gunner and Atom Smasher, and look at your posts. Asking to know how the guy looks, so you could try and make fun out of him if there's some sort of flaw? Come on, think about it, put your own ego's aside! True DonJuan does not need approval, and does not need to prove anything! Sure, Ronaldo7 has so many qualities in his personality I find appaling, and I would probably never want to associate myself with him in a daily life; However, we all get these people in daily lives where we have to deal with them, and is it not fascinating to you to have an opportunity and ask them what makes them such? Why resort to personal attacks, when instead you can find out more about the person, why he thinks he is better and so, and use that as a tool to help yourself grow? You have someone from upper-middle class who is arrogant and excels at pursuit of his goals, who potentially has knowledge of a higher social circle... You can find out so much, learn so much, discover so much, bet it how to deal with someone who is arrogant prick, to find out how would one have to be like to fit in into some social strata, or why you should not try to fit in in that strata at all! And what you do is try to belittle and bring the person down, so you could say "Heh, at least I'm better than him at x", or somehow prove your superiority?

Learn from this! It is easy to say "ban this guy" "he is trolling" "you suck", since it makes oneself more comfortable knowing other's don't approve of him as well, and that your current thinking was "accepted". It is harder to bite it up, and consider that perhaps one himself is not as good as he thinks, to recognize your very own little Ronaldo7 inside of you! For what I've read in the DonJuan bible, it is stepping out of your comfort zone, it is putting your ego aside that makes one grow; One may say that his thread is bull****, and should be closed, since it does not contribute anything to the site for people who are looking for help. I think this is one of the greatest recent threads here, and it shows so much about people, gives you an amazing chance to learn how to maintain your cool and just laugh it off when someone looks you in the eye and says that he thinks he is "smarter" than you. Cause true DonJuan will not try to prove he is smarter, he will just smile back, casually mention "I guess you are" and move on. Because down inside, he knows the truth, and that is all that matters.

And OP, glad to hear that you've got the advice you came here for, and although unasked, I'd like to throw in my two cents on the flaming and hate and so on, since, after all, this is a semi-free market of ideas -

To you, success may be having eleventy billion dollars, to someone else it may be curing cancer without making any money from it, or maybe raising a family and two kids. However, when calling yourself better than *everyone* else, one should remember a couple of things:

You are rating yourself on your specific scale, i.e., your definition of success. Everyone sees success in their own way, and although yes, you may be a lot farther ahead than most of the people on your way to become a CEO, remember that not everyone wants that, and they may actually be a lot further on their own way than you; Rating the success of people based on your own criteria is somewhat shortsighted. The more specific the route, the easier it is to "feel" more successful than others, since you meet very few people on the same road as you.

Nevertheless, sooner or later, you will meet someone who followed a similar route, and was/still is/will be better than you, on your own scale. It will probably happen within next few years, since after one moves out of their place, and attends a university/college/other place that concentrates a large number of people with similar interests as yours, you inevitably find someone who has/is more; I really doubt that it is possible to actually be at the *top*, since there is nearly an inexhaustible supply of these different areas of concentration - say it's not university, well it might be a golf club, or other place where people with similar interests as yours gather around.

So what you said about yourself - It could be that you actually are better than everyone else, but only in your current area, social circle, monkey sphere or whatever you call it. You may be the best doctor in a small rural village, but that does not not necessarily mean you are the best doctor in New York; and again, being the best doctor in New York does not necessarily mean there isn't a doctor in some village who is better than you.

If you want to grow, find yourself a circle where you are not the best. It will be painful, it will shatter your ego, but you will have the potential to grow and actually become better than a lot more people again. Strive to be best, yet realize that there will still be someone better. You had the great opportunity to be born into a rich family that probably opened many doors for you. That's great, that's like starting a game at level 10 already, but you still got 10 more levels to beat, so don't let your ego make you stay in that same level forever, or that is all you will be;
The best out of underachievers is still an under-achiever.

All who flamed me are very insecure beings. I didn't flame anyone at all. Underachievers will always hate what they can't understand. I just happen to be what they can't understand. Most people tell me my personality sucks and stinks. I simply tell them that my personality is designed to achieve, achieve, and achieve even more. It isn't designed to be liked or to please anyone/anything. I don't seek approval from others. I simply barrel THROUGH them, whether they get hurt or not isn't my concern. Most people are designed to be liked, interact, be friendly, etc. They will feel uneasy if their friend isn't talking to them or whatever the case may be. I don't call anyone my friend. I only have associates and acquaintances. If everyone followed my lead, the world would be full of successful people that would maintain successful generations. “Do I care for anyone other than myself and my family?” is something you need to ask yourself to be successful with women or anything you pursue. I’m only seen as an arrogant prick by you, and a lot of people, which I really find funny because the only opinion/fact/truth that matters to me is mine and solely mine. I appreciate people giving their opinions, which seem pretty pointless, since at the end I’ll do what I want and they will have to agree with it.
I’m not trying to rile anyone up. This is who I am, whether you hate (obviously) or love me. I find it pretty ironic that I get flamed the hardest here when I came looking for help in a single area and haven’t changed who I am at any point, yet so many threads here are stating what they could CHANGE to get what they want. Would you seriously change yourself for a broad or anyone else? No wonder the world is full of shape-shifters and fakes who don’t know who they are.
I call myself better than everyone else because I firmly believe so. Air is matter. Words are matter. When you tell yourself something and firmly believe it with every fiber of your being, it WILL become true. Words are the most powerful weapon you have available. I only compete with myself. Why? There is simply no one better than me. It wouldn’t make sense for me to compete against others because they aren’t at my level. It would be like playing beginner mode when I am already a legend. I will never find anyone better than me because there isn’t anyone. I only look up to myself and therefore my only competition is myself.
I don’t let my ego get in the way of achieving things. My ego is my show later on when I achieve it. It is also what feeds me with the energy to keep going. I am the best out of the overachievers and everyone else.

@Synergy: I haven’t insulted anyone or put anyone down. I feel we can all share ideas. If you don’t understand mine, which is painfully obvious, I can always explain them to you. You don’t need to get incensed and cry about it.
@DjGirl: I have no “ways”. I only have a designed mindset that I live by. I make threads for a specific purpose, which will benefit me and only me.
@BeTheMan: That’s a big word to throw around, especially if you don’t know what it means.