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Darth said:
Listen buddy, I think you are full of sh!t. I used to have a big ego too, I used to think I was better than everybody else, that the worst thing in the world was to be average. You know what? I was wrong.

I still have high standards. I am still in pursuit of excellence. I have many of the same professional goals that I used to have. But the motivation is altogether different. I think that every one of my days is a gift from God. I could literally drop dead at any moment. All of my possessions are God's on loan. All of my talents and abilities- from God, on loan. I'm on borrowed time, buddy. Everybody dies and that includes you. Then what good is that big ego you've been feeding? I pursue success so I can try to thank/repay God for the gifts I've been given- not to puff myself up, which is what I used to believe.

Whether you share my own philosophy or not, the point remains that you are a legend in your OWN MIND. Nobody else thinks of you that way. It is a comforting fantasy to think you are better than everybody else, but I'm telling you- underneath that is anger, pain, and a sh!tload of childhood problems.

This is the last I'll say on this topic. Good luck to you.
Thanks for your comment. I really could care less what others think. I only care/give a sh!t about what i think. I'll reach my goals and successes my way. We are all different and think very differently. I'm not you and you are not me. I'm a legend, you are right. Do i care what everyone else thinks? Nope. It's what i say vs what others say and who do i care about only? Myself. You have your opinion and that's that. I have the truth by my side, which trumps any opinion.

@RoyalFlush: This thread has gone to waste since no one answered my question. What an unfortunate incident. I am simply responding to people that seem to have an inquiry about me.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
This thread has gone to waste since no one answered my question.
Here's a simple answer aside from all the bullsh1t going on with your NPD: when you see a girl look your way, go up to her and talk to her. Assuming it's a positive look, that's the green light for you to go say something. Easy.

I won't elaborate further because remember, you are a "people person" when you need to be, or have use for someone to get what you want, so I'm sure you can take it from there.


Oh and this next little thing has been bugging the sh1t out of me ever since I read it. You say your classic phrase is "I could care less." By saying that you could care less, you are implying that you do care. This is because you have to care on some level to be able to care less than you already do. You should be saying that you "couldn't care less." This means that you could not possibly care less than you already do (meaning that you don't care at all). So to summarize: could care less = you do care, and couldn't care less = you don't care.

It wouldn't bug me if you weren't a pretentious, spoiled, @ss, from being coddled like an infant your whole life. You are exactly that, though. You also say you are better than everyone in everything you do. Well, you sure as hell don't have as good of a grasp of the English language as some people.

If you worked hard to get rich and build your own wealth, you'd have somewhat of a right to be an arrogant prick about being filthy rich, because it would be a product of your hard work. However, since you are only 18, that means all your money came from mommy and daddy. What's the family business that will make you a billionaire one day? What if that business were to go under, due to unfortunate circumstances? What if the money ran out?




Ah man I realize there's no point in saying anything to this snot nosed kid, but after reading 5 pages of this sh1t, it got pretty annoying.
 

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TheStig said:
Here's a simple answer aside from all the bullsh1t going on with your NPD: when you see a girl look your way, go up to her and talk to her. Assuming it's a positive look, that's the green light for you to go say something. Easy.

I won't elaborate further because remember, you are a "people person" when you need to be, or have use for someone to get what you want, so I'm sure you can take it from there.


Oh and this next little thing has been bugging the sh1t out of me ever since I read it. You say your classic phrase is "I could care less." By saying that you could care less, you are implying that you do care. This is because you have to care on some level to be able to care less than you already do. You should be saying that you "couldn't care less." This means that you could not possibly care less than you already do (meaning that you don't care at all). So to summarize: could care less = you do care, and couldn't care less = you don't care.

It wouldn't bug me if you weren't a pretentious, spoiled, @ss, from being coddled like an infant your whole life. You are exactly that, though. You also say you are better than everyone in everything you do. Well, you sure as hell don't have as good of a grasp of the English language as some people.

If you worked hard to get rich and build your own wealth, you'd have somewhat of a right to be an arrogant prick about being filthy rich, because it would be a product of your hard work. However, since you are only 18, that means all your money came from mommy and daddy. What's the family business that will make you a billionaire one day? What if that business were to go under, due to unfortunate circumstances? What if the money ran out?




Ah man I realize there's no point in saying anything to this snot nosed kid, but after reading 5 pages of this sh1t, it got pretty annoying.
Thanks for your answer to my question. I'll be sure to do so or more likely wait for her to come, since i am the higher value. I understand from the DJ Bible that you are supposed to show her you are the higher value, which i clearly obviously am.

How many languages do you speak? I speak 4 languages. Do you have to translate EVERYTHING through 3 other languages first? I don't think so. In other languages, English words in a sentence are flipped in sequence and it sounds a lot different in English than in French, Portuguese, or Spanish. I like how you point that out when you know that i have the strength in that and you don't.

Money does come from my parents. However, i also have my own savings from my own work.

I plan to build my own empire and dynasty. I'll take all the credit for myself. I would never allow for anyone to share my success. It's mine and not anyone elses. I am the "I" in team. I am the team.
 

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floydb25 said:
You guys are just wasting time talking to this tool. No matter what you say, he attacks and praises himself - while viewing everyone as beneath him. Don't you see in all of his responses? This is what it's like dealing with an NPD. You CAN'T get through to them. He's not going to come to his senses.

Should just ban his worthless ass.
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Ronaldo7 said:
Thanks for your answer to my question. I'll be sure to do so or more likely wait for her to come, since i am the higher value. I understand from the DJ Bible that you are supposed to show her you are the higher value, which i clearly obviously am.

How many languages do you speak? I speak 4 languages. Do you have to translate EVERYTHING through 3 other languages first? I don't think so. In other languages, English words in a sentence are flipped in sequence and it sounds a lot different in English than in French, Portuguese, or Spanish. I like how you point that out when you know that i have the strength in that and you don't.

Money does come from my parents. However, i also have my own savings from my own work.

I plan to build my own empire and dynasty. I'll take all the credit for myself. I would never allow for anyone to share my success. It's mine and not anyone elses. I am the "I" in team. I am the team.
Any average Joe can wear a suit to a club and just sit there looking all smug and arrogant. But you, you must just have some glistening aura of high value about you that beckons girls to come and give themselves up to you. Only HB10's right?

For real though dude how's a girl gonna know you're high value if you're sitting there doing nothing? Your suit that's out of place in the situation? Your smug looks?

And translating everything through 3 languages first? LOL what a pile of sh1t. Why would you not just translate from your native language (whatever that is) to the one you are using in the moment? Assuming you're Portugese (just for an example), do you write a thought in Portugese, then translate it to French, then Spanish, then English? You translate a sentence through every language you know before ending up in the language you happen to be communicating? HAHA what a fvcking joke. And yes I took 3 years of Spanish in high school.



Serious question though, what business are you in?




Anyway, you either a colossal troll, or in serious need of help. Psychiatric help. Nobody here can help you, as it's been proven already.


But for real mods ban this douche, this thread is a waste of space and not productive or helpful in any way.
 

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Oh and this next little thing has been bugging the sh1t out of me ever since I read it. You say your classic phrase is "I could care less." By saying that you could care less, you are implying that you do care. This is because you have to care on some level to be able to care less than you already do. You should be saying that you "couldn't care less." This means that you could not possibly care less than you already do (meaning that you don't care at all). So to summarize: could care less = you do care, and couldn't care less = you don't care.

It wouldn't bug me if you weren't a pretentious, spoiled, @ss, from being coddled like an infant your whole life. You are exactly that, though. You also say you are better than everyone in everything you do. Well, you sure as hell don't have as good of a grasp of the English language as some people.
That's what I said 50 posts ago. His English is inferior. I've known tons of immigrants whose native language wasn't English, but wrote and spoke far better than this low-class braggart. Now, if he were saying he's an ordinary guy with a lot of potential, and wants our help to reach that potential, that would be different. I'd be inclined to overlook imperfection. As it is, I'm inclined to ask the moderators to ban the OP and close this thread.
 

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SoSuave666 said:
If your posts are not trolling, internet jocking, or any variation of the two, you need to seek help...you as well have NPD.
Seriously Ronaldo7, go read up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Just from what you have written here it is clear that you fit the profile perfectly.
 

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WoW! 6 pages and 100+ posts dedicated to this neo-maxie-zoom-dweebie? LOLZ! Kid's a complete retard and a troll...if he actually *believes* his own drivel, I would love to be there when he crashes and burns and finds out he is just human and nothing more....
 

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Ronaldo, I don't know anything about this NPD everybody is talking about, but it sounds pretty accurate. If you really are the best then you shouldn't neglect your wellbeing.

On your belief that only one opinion matters - yours. What if you (hypothetically) broke your leg and were advised not to go to the gym for 6 months, yet you thought you would be ok in 3 months. Don't try and claim that you would not be foolish enough to believe you would be back in 3 months, this is all hypothetical. Would you then disregard the doctors advice and go back to the gym after 3 months? Your SPECIAL status would not speed up the process.

You state that you gave background information to us to help give you an answer, and that the majority of posters have used this information to attack you and not answer the question you posed. This is true.

However my advice is that your personality needs to be altered. You cannot approach women because the essence of your personality prevents you from doing it, you believe you are above approaching the majority of the time. This is what makes you fail in this particular situation.

You say you can be a people person when it suits you. It suits you to get a woman, so go and say hello. It shouldn't matter that she should be coming to you. If YOU want to get the girl, YOU have to approach. It does not matter if you believe you are above her and she should approach you. You asked for advice on how to approach woman. The advice is to try to forget your superiority complex - which is exactly what you have, and go and say hello.

It is excellent that you are driven and determined. It is excellent that you have a high opinion of yourself. However these traits are blinding you to the fact that to approach a woman you need to say hello to her and ask her questions about herself. Do not now say that she should approach you. That is not the question you asked, you asked how to approach girls. The answer is to go up to them and say hello. Your personality claiming she should come to you is your biggest hinderance in doing this, hence the assault on your personality by some posters.

Can you understand this now Ronaldo?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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being an arrogant sociopath will not encourage girlies to drop panties.
Well, will it or won't it? Because it seems to me most of the forum thinks that being a sociopath is the way to go. PlayHerMan had a thread saying you had to be a sociopath to get respect from women. I think I was about the only guy on the thread saying no, it wasn't necessary. Everyone else was saying women were highly attracted to sociopathic traits. So which is it?

Seems to me this Renaldo guy is exactly what this forum espouses a man to be in order to get women, aside from the reluctance to approach. So from that perspective, I don't know why everyone is jumping on him.
 

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Hmmmm... Mr. Fabulous must've used up his 10 posts. Felt more like 500. I'm sure he'll respond to EVERYBODY in the usual glee-ful manner once his time is up. Probably counting down the hours, and ****. "OH NOES! THEY DON'T REALIZE HOW AWESOME I AM. GOTTA SET THE RECORD STRAIGHT! AGAIN! THEY JUST DON'T GET IT, DO THEY? WHY DO I HAVE A POST LIMIT, ANYWAY? DON'T THEY SEE HOW MUCH BETTER I AM THAN EVERYBODY ELSE?"

****ing homo. :cheer:
 

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zekko said:
Well, will it or won't it? Because it seems to me most of the forum thinks that being a sociopath is the way to go. PlayHerMan had a thread saying you had to be a sociopath to get respect from women. I think I was about the only guy on the thread saying no, it wasn't necessary. Everyone else was saying women were highly attracted to sociopathic traits. So which is it?

Seems to me this Renaldo guy is exactly what this forum espouses a man to be in order to get women, aside from the reluctance to approach. So from that perspective, I don't know why everyone is jumping on him.
I hate to say it but it seems to me they respond way more favorably to meanness than niceness, after the initial shock is past. This applies (in my experience) only to uber-hot chicks who think their sh!t don't stink, or to 7-8's who have just emitted a sh!t test. Hot women DESIRE to be called on their sh!t. It's the only way they know a man's caliber.

This, however, does not apply to average girls (again, in my experience). The hotter the girl, the more she needs arrogance and C7F. Conversely, the more average the girl, the less. In fact, below-average to average girls don't even respond well to mild C&F.

I've found (and just recently, at that) that when a hot girl is "above you" in her attitude toward you the way to bring her down to reality is some AH behavior, arrogant from a place of conveying that you absolutely couldn't care less what she thinks of you. That includes avoiding being over-arrogant to the point of appearing to care. It's all about letting her know she's expendible and that you're not drooling over her like everyone else.

It is the sickness and deterioration of modern women that makes this so. It's abnormal and definitely NOT what most of us men want to do and be, but being a nice, decent man to a hot woman is disgusting to her, in general. If not immediately, then in the future because she will grow to despise the decent, kind man. Sick, I know, but real nonetheless.
 

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zekko said:
Well, will it or won't it? Because it seems to me most of the forum thinks that being a sociopath is the way to go. PlayHerMan had a thread saying you had to be a sociopath to get respect from women. I think I was about the only guy on the thread saying no, it wasn't necessary. Everyone else was saying women were highly attracted to sociopathic traits. So which is it?

Seems to me this Renaldo guy is exactly what this forum espouses a man to be in order to get women, aside from the reluctance to approach. So from that perspective, I don't know why everyone is jumping on him.
People will always hate what they can't comprehend for themselves. The reason people are attacking me is because i won't change, since they obviously have big problem with the way i conduct myself. If you don't bend over for people and instead exert your authority, they will not like it, especially, as mentioned before, when you are asking for help. I know i have all the tools to break as many hearts as i desire. People are often jealous of me because i don't care what they say or do. I'd rather people call me ****y for living like i believe, that i'm a king.

@Gunner26: Thanks for your comment. I took into consideration your helpful advice on how to approach women, but i forgot how good-looking i am, as hard as that is to believe, and how girls give me those longing, drooling looks.
I went out to the club and met a girl who kept smiling at me. I'd say she was a 9 for my standards and i have very,very, very high standards. She had the body, the moves, and the face. She also had a very good sense of style. I took your advice, which i had been asking for in this thread, and approached her. I went up to her and said "Do you always look good or did you simply put the extra effort in because you knew you were going to meet me?" She told me i was full of myself and i told her that she was full of me too, so we did have something in common. I never knew it was going to be this easy to open up a woman. I don't see how it should be hard for any of you. Needless to say, i got her number and i'm taking her to a movie. You know you are ahead of the competition when she is 23 and you are 18. Thanks for the advice man.
 

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@Gunner26: Thanks for your comment. I took into consideration your helpful advice on how to approach women, but i forgot how good-looking i am, as hard as that is to believe, and how girls give me those longing, drooling looks.

This is good Ronaldo. How did you feel when you forgot about yourself in this way? Nobody really wants a person who believes that they are the perfect human, it is not just the feeling people get that they aren't good enough for them, it is the fact they have opposition for thier affections by the 'perfect' being that they are talking too. This is why you were not as successful with women.

I went out to the club and met a girl who kept smiling at me. I'd say she was a 9 for my standards and i have very,very, very high standards. She had the body, the moves, and the face. She also had a very good sense of style. I took your advice, which i had been asking for in this thread, and approached her. I went up to her and said "Do you always look good or did you simply put the extra effort in because you knew you were going to meet me?" She told me i was full of myself and i told her that she was full of me too, so we did have something in common.

See this is a good example of an initial approach. You were confident, but not too arrogant, a result of you attempting to forget you believe yourself to be better than her, even though you aren't. Obviously you were still of the mindset that she should be qualifying herself to you as you are a great catch, hence the reply to her assumption that you were full of yourself.

I never knew it was going to be this easy to open up a woman. I don't see how it should be hard for any of you. Needless to say, i got her number and i'm taking her to a movie. You know you are ahead of the competition when she is 23 and you are 18. Thanks for the advice man.

Opening is not too difficult, it stems from a confidence in your ability, which is obvious you have, perhaps in too much abundance. The trick is to remember that nobody wants to feel that you are better than them, you may believe it, but do not show it to them, it WILL NOT work for you, not initially, nor in the long run. Better to keep this side of your personality hidden in your encounters with people.
I replied in bold.

But one more thing I'd like to say is that your interaction with this woman went well because you didn't put it into her head that you were better than her. At least not too much.
This is a mindset to have in interactions with people. You say that you discard people you no longer need, ok fair enough I suppose, people drop friends all the time and make new social groups.

However your aim to be CEO is dependant not only on your determination to obtain this position. As far as I am aware CEO is a position you are appointed by a board or committee of people in a high position in the company. If this is the case, no matter your determination, you need to be on good terms with these people, not just to get the position of CEO, but to maintain it. A company big enough to have an important CEO is dependant on it's board members as much as the CEO. If you get to this stage, and best of luck to you, you will have to revert your belief you are the best. You may have the highest position in the company, but your success will be based on the work of YOUR employees. For them to work at their best they need to be valued, you HAVE to have belief in them to do their job capably. If your employees feel undervalued your company will go to ****. No matter your 'determination' 'confidence' and 'superiority to them'. This is why your personality needs to be changed.

Think of it as helping yourself out, by valuing people more, you put yourself in a better position to enjoy being CEO, rather than worry about disenchanted and resentful board members and employees.

Gunner
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Op...u wut mate? Do you normally SPAM message boards this much?

OP.....is either a troll of epic proportions or one of the biggest Narcissistic sociopaths I have ever come across. If he is a real person? Remember the villains in James Bond Movies? Goldfinger or Blofeld or Dr Evil? That is this guy. A mini me Dr. Evil trying to act all tough and ****y. Someone who, on the outside at least, is so over the top that you JUST CANNOT TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY. And that is the issue here, he wants to be taken seriously. But he has the opposite affect on people. They don't. Instead they laugh and snicker behind his back, and more or less think of him as a clown. A narcissistic clown. I don't think that is the look that OP is going for, but alas it is reality.

Now, to you OP. You so remind me of every other 18 year old out there. You are just a kid. A kid who doesn't know any better. A kid with no knowledge on what to do or say, in almost every situation you encounter. So you go over the top, just like any 18 year old boy does. Some 18 year olds act tough, some act emo, some act like a know it all. Some dress like a thug. Some dress like a jock. Some wear a suit. Why? Because they are awkward and unsure and not confident, but they are too worried about their image so they act in a way that they think will get them what they want...RESPECT.

You should understand that people who need to constantly tell others how great they are, how superior they are, how confident they are, are in fact just the opposite. They need to say these things constantly, to others and to themselves, because they are so not confident in real life that without this constant self validation, they are nothing.

Some key things about you exemplify this for me even more. One, your lack of ability to talk to girls. Classic classic sign of someone who doesn't possess the real self inner confidence one needs to do that, especially at your age. Just like any kid at your age really. These girls are beneath you and yet you don't know how to talk to them? Does not compute.

Two, for someone with your supposed intellect and mental superiority, you really don't write all that well nor is your grasp of the English language top notch. In fact for someone who is a genius such as yourself, you couldn't even find the DJ bible on this website. Which is literally something an 8 year old could do. And speaking of, why, if you are so above anyone in almost every way, do you even need an online website to find out how to talk to girls? Shouldn't this just be second nature for you? Does not add up in my book.

Look, you honestly remind me of a spoiled little princess girl. A girl who has been spoiled all her life and who has guys waiting on her hand and foot and as result has a very entitled attitude. THAT is your attitude and this just happened.

It takes A LOT for a guy to alienate himself on this site as much as you have, usually that honor is saved just for the spoiled beootchess that are so prevalent today, but you have succeeded wonderfully in that regard. You will get no where in life with that kind of persona unless you have a skill set that is in such demand that it would allow you to get away with it. Something like a world class athlete, or singer, or actor. Or a genius in some specific area of expertise.

But you are none of those things. You are a ****y, smart aleck, 18 year old kid x 1000. And you will get no where in life being that way.

Or? You are a troll. A spamming troll. But maybe, just maybe, you are both. In which case, your entire life is SPAM.

And backbreaker, I find it truly sad that you said "this guy is you". Just wow. Though that might explain the issues you have had in life, and you do seem to have overcome a lot of them. So congrats.
 

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Ronny my boy surely if you are so self confident of your look and abilities, showing a pic or two of yourself on here would be A OK in your book right? Or, are you not as good looking IRL as you say you are?
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I hate to say it but it seems to me they respond way more favorably to meanness than niceness, after the initial shock is past. This applies (in my experience) only to uber-hot chicks who think their sh!t don't stink, or to 7-8's who have just emitted a sh!t test. Hot women DESIRE to be called on their sh!t. It's the only way they know a man's caliber.
Here's where we disagree: See, I don't think that calling a woman on her sh!t is sociopathic, or mean, or anything of the sort. It's simply treating her like you would treat any other normal person. This is one thing that really aggravates me about pickup forums like this. It seems like if you are not kissing a woman's @ss and bowing and scraping to her, then this qualifies as "jerk" behavior and sociopathy, when clearly it does not.

And I honestly do not care what some random girl thinks of me. Why would I? So I don't have to put on some sort of pathological "act" to convince her of it. Now if no girl ever gave me any interest, then I might care. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen. Now finding one that is actually worth spending time with, that is the challenge.

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It is the sickness and deterioration of modern women that makes this so. It's abnormal and definitely NOT what most of us men want to do and be, but being a nice, decent man to a hot woman is disgusting to her, in general. If not immediately, then in the future because she will grow to despise the decent, kind man. Sick, I know, but real nonetheless.
There are women like this, but they should be avoided like the plague. Such women are not even worthy of a pump and dump IMO. But PUA types will follow after these girls like puppy dogs, giving them validation through sex.

But I must disagree that all women are like this, I'm not seeing it. You don't see hot girls impressed by family men who are out with their children and are good with them? Not all women despise decent men, as I've said before I know many attractive women who are with good, decent men. But you have to have a bold and confident attitude with these girls - you can't be weak or placing them above you in your head, because as soon as you do, you're done.

I hate to think what this next generation of "men" is going to be. All of this stuff about how you can't be a "Nice Guy" is going mainstream, and more and more guys are convinced you have to be an @sshole to get women. Women are already attending and graduating college more than men. As more guys are taught to be anti-social rebels that can't or won't fit into society, this is only going to get worse.

Back to Renaldo, this guy should be this forum's biggest hero. He's been accused of narcissism, but isn't this (along with psychopathy) one of the "Dark Triad" traits that are supposed to be so appealing to women? If this guy is a narcissist and a sociopath, he's simply the personification of what most guys on here aspire to be.
 

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Gunner26 said:
I replied in bold.

But one more thing I'd like to say is that your interaction with this woman went well because you didn't put it into her head that you were better than her. At least not too much.
This is a mindset to have in interactions with people. You say that you discard people you no longer need, ok fair enough I suppose, people drop friends all the time and make new social groups.

However your aim to be CEO is dependant not only on your determination to obtain this position. As far as I am aware CEO is a position you are appointed by a board or committee of people in a high position in the company. If this is the case, no matter your determination, you need to be on good terms with these people, not just to get the position of CEO, but to maintain it. A company big enough to have an important CEO is dependant on it's board members as much as the CEO. If you get to this stage, and best of luck to you, you will have to revert your belief you are the best. You may have the highest position in the company, but your success will be based on the work of YOUR employees. For them to work at their best they need to be valued, you HAVE to have belief in them to do their job capably. If your employees feel undervalued your company will go to ****. No matter your 'determination' 'confidence' and 'superiority to them'. This is why your personality needs to be changed.

Think of it as helping yourself out, by valuing people more, you put yourself in a better position to enjoy being CEO, rather than worry about disenchanted and resentful board members and employees.

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I meant i forgot how far my good looks take me. I can't help they look my way, can i?

But i am better than her. If you could only see the way she texts me. It's like she was dying for me to talk to her. She kept asking for me to add her on FB because she wanted to see how someone like me didn't have a girl by his side.

There is no such thing as overconfidence. I found you just need to make statements. I simply told her we were going out. I didn't ask for her opinion because i could care less what she has to say. Even if i keep my mouth tight, it will always show how much better i am. It's like a world-class athlete trying to fake he is an amateur. I'm good where i'm going and i don't need to worry.

If you really think about it, the statements i made to her were all to flatter myself. I think i have the advantage that i will only show myself and never let others have any value to them.

The CEO earns the billions. As long as i earn the billions, i could have the whole world hating me and i wouldn't care. Employees? Haha. They can do whatever they please and it won't change a thing. They are easily replaced with new ones. What can they really say or do? I'm on top, while they are at the bottom of the food chain.

@cordoncordon: I take myself seriously. Do i care if you take me seriously? No. I only care about what I think, if you didn't know that already.

I never said i didn't know how to talk to girls. I said i didn't know how to APPROACH. Please fully comprehend what i type. I can talk my way into and out of anything. Words come naturally to me.

"You really don't write all that well nor is your grasp of the English language top notch". I speak 4 languages. You can keep your solitary language to yourself. Thanks for the compliment, again. There were 2 links to the DJ Bible and i asked which one was which. Please fully comprehend what i type. I simply asked a question here about approaching women, which turned into a sh!t fest, because i wanted an opinion from people who do not know me.

I don't see how i've alienated myself here. We will see where i get in life and where you end up, seeing that you are 39. Don't feel jealous that my future is going to be one of a billionaire, while you could only manage to be average, just like everyone else.

@Zekko: "Back to Renaldo, this guy should be this forum's biggest hero. He's been accused of narcissism, but isn't this (along with psychopathy) one of the "Dark Triad" traits that are supposed to be so appealing to women? If this guy is a narcissist and a sociopath, he's simply the personification of what most guys on here aspire to be." It's all about jealousy and not being able to understand me, my friend.

I think you stand under me
If you don't understand me
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
I meant i forgot how far my good looks take me. I can't help they look my way, can i?

But i am better than her. If you could only see the way she texts me. It's like she was dying for me to talk to her. She kept asking for me to add her on FB because she wanted to see how someone like me didn't have a girl by his side.

There is no such thing as overconfidence. I found you just need to make statements. I simply told her we were going out. I didn't ask for her opinion because i could care less what she has to say. Even if i keep my mouth tight, it will always show how much better i am. It's like a world-class athlete trying to fake he is an amateur. I'm good where i'm going and i don't need to worry.

If you really think about it, the statements i made to her were all to flatter myself. I think i have the advantage that i will only show myself and never let others have any value to them.

The CEO earns the billions. As long as i earn the billions, i could have the whole world hating me and i wouldn't care. Employees? Haha. They can do whatever they please and it won't change a thing. They are easily replaced with new ones. What can they really say or do? I'm on top, while they are at the bottom of the food chain.

@cordoncordon: I take myself seriously. Do i care if you take me seriously? No. I only care about what I think, if you didn't know that already.

I never said i didn't know how to talk to girls. I said i didn't know how to APPROACH. Please fully comprehend what i type. I can talk my way into and out of anything. Words come naturally to me.

"You really don't write all that well nor is your grasp of the English language top notch". I speak 4 languages. You can keep your solitary language to yourself. Thanks for the compliment, again. There were 2 links to the DJ Bible and i asked which one was which. Please fully comprehend what i type. I simply asked a question here about approaching women, which turned into a sh!t fest, because i wanted an opinion from people who do not know me.

I don't see how i've alienated myself here. We will see where i get in life and where you end up, seeing that you are 39. Don't feel jealous that my future is going to be one of a billionaire, while you could only manage to be average, just like everyone else.

@Zekko: "Back to Renaldo, this guy should be this forum's biggest hero. He's been accused of narcissism, but isn't this (along with psychopathy) one of the "Dark Triad" traits that are supposed to be so appealing to women? If this guy is a narcissist and a sociopath, he's simply the personification of what most guys on here aspire to be." It's all about jealousy and not being able to understand me, my friend.

I think you stand under me
If you don't understand me
You're either a troll, delusional, suffer from a mental illness, or insane. Possibly a combo of all of those. Whatever it is, you are not all there mentally. But, I think even you know that in some way.

Still waiting for those pics Mr. mini me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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