"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Better convo from HBs than from UGs?

david90

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I get good convo from HBs more often than UGs. I thought it was suppose to be the other way around.

Is it because HBs are more confident thus more relaxed and make better convo?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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R3N3G4D3

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They get talked to more, so they're more used to talking. If you don't talk much you'll have trouble keeping up a good conversation.
 

squirrels

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There's this American stigma that "if you're ugly, don't worry, you can make up for it with personality." THe problem with that is that the ugly chicks automatically ASSUME they have a sparkling personality just because they're ugly, where in real life they're both ugly AND dull.

The ones who'll probably make the best conversation are the ones who are cute, but not true hotties. They get the social attention necessary to forge good conversational skills, but they don't get focused on purely for their looks.

And as always, the exception outweighs the rule. Take each girl as an individual and see what she has to offer. :)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by squirrels
There's this American stigma that "if you're ugly, don't worry, you can make up for it with personality." THe problem with that is that the ugly chicks automatically ASSUME they have a sparkling personality just because they're ugly, where in real life they're both ugly AND dull.
Now that was just plain salty... :p
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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could it not be down to you? it takes two people to keep a conversation going properly and you probably do not bother trying to keep the conversation going with UG's like you do with HB's
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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