"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Better being absent ?

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Hello felows

I met her yesterday on a chat
Now she wanna be the whole day on MSN with me
She is on her work and so am I

I need an advise

Do I have to stay with her all day, or to be absent?

I think that she may become sick of me

If you were me how often would you be online


Mustache
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you get paid for work then work time is for work.

MSNsnsnsnsnsnnss her after work or talk to her on the phone after work or take her on the date after work.

Did let her walk over you. Don't get in trouble at work because of some chick.
 
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Dear mr Kaptain

Thanks for your opinion

The point is really find out whether absence is a positive fact
rather than my presence the whole day

Mustache
 
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Mr Kaptain.... Thats my Dad's name :D

Originally posted by Mustache

The point is really find out whether absence is a positive fact
rather than my presence the whole day
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Positive.

Keeps you a mystery.

Get her mind ticking over: "I wonder what Mustache is up to now. Do something cool I bet. I wish he was doing something cool with me" ;)

Doesn't make look desperate.

Keeps the conversations fresh.
 
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