"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Better being absent ?

Mustache

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Hello felows

I met her yesterday on a chat
Now she wanna be the whole day on MSN with me
She is on her work and so am I

I need an advise

Do I have to stay with her all day, or to be absent?

I think that she may become sick of me

If you were me how often would you be online


Mustache
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kaptain

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If you get paid for work then work time is for work.

MSNsnsnsnsnsnnss her after work or talk to her on the phone after work or take her on the date after work.

Did let her walk over you. Don't get in trouble at work because of some chick.
 

Mustache

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Dear mr Kaptain

Thanks for your opinion

The point is really find out whether absence is a positive fact
rather than my presence the whole day

Mustache
 

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Mr Kaptain.... Thats my Dad's name :D

Originally posted by Mustache

The point is really find out whether absence is a positive fact
rather than my presence the whole day
Positive.

Keeps you a mystery.

Get her mind ticking over: "I wonder what Mustache is up to now. Do something cool I bet. I wish he was doing something cool with me" ;)

Doesn't make look desperate.

Keeps the conversations fresh.
 
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