"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Better being absent ?

Mustache

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Hello felows

I met her yesterday on a chat
Now she wanna be the whole day on MSN with me
She is on her work and so am I

I need an advise

Do I have to stay with her all day, or to be absent?

I think that she may become sick of me

If you were me how often would you be online


Mustache
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kaptain

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If you get paid for work then work time is for work.

MSNsnsnsnsnsnnss her after work or talk to her on the phone after work or take her on the date after work.

Did let her walk over you. Don't get in trouble at work because of some chick.
 

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Dear mr Kaptain

Thanks for your opinion

The point is really find out whether absence is a positive fact
rather than my presence the whole day

Mustache
 

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Mr Kaptain.... Thats my Dad's name :D

Originally posted by Mustache

The point is really find out whether absence is a positive fact
rather than my presence the whole day
Positive.

Keeps you a mystery.

Get her mind ticking over: "I wonder what Mustache is up to now. Do something cool I bet. I wish he was doing something cool with me" ;)

Doesn't make look desperate.

Keeps the conversations fresh.
 
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